Could our relationship be over because of his daughter ?
I’m having trouble with my boyfriend’s daughter, a lot of trouble.. we’ve been together for 2 years, she was two when we got together and she’s almost going to be four. At first her and I had a great relationship, we bonded really quick and everything was working out well. She would get often get jealous about her “daddy” and me but at the time I didnt really care because I thought she was going to get over it and well, she didn’t. At first he would only have her a couple of days but now he is trying to get full custody and she is already living with us and I’m pretty sure he is going to win. As much as I try to like the idea of being a family, I don’t. She is disrespectful, she never listens, she screams and yells at me, she’s rude to other people and she always wants to be the center of attention (she even likes negative attention). I can’t lay down with my boyfriend because she gets in between us (and he lets her all the time), I can’t kiss him because she gets mad, I can’t hug him because she wants him to hug her, I can’t hold his hand because she wants him to hold her hand AND IT’S DRIVING ME CRAZY. Even when we are trying to have a conversation she gets in the middle of us (or anyone) and starts screaming or telling stories so that she can get all the attention. She doesn’t want anyone holding other babies in front of her (like her baby cousin) because she gets mad and starts crying. She even starts acting like a baby and stops talking and just cries and cries because she wants the attention that the baby is getting. We never have time for us, she is always there and maybe if she was a little bit different I wouldn’t really care. Her dad gets mad if I make comments about her bad behavior or if I say something about how she’s affecting our relationship. I love him with all my heart, but I never thought that his daughter could completely ruin our relationship. What should I do?