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And the fight continues...... Any thoughts?

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So we've been fighting for 2 days now cuz I looked in fh's phone. He was initally mad about the 'invasion of privacy' which I still can't fully cop to because if he wasn't acting squirrly about the phone I wouldn't have felt uneasy and needed to check up on him.
That being said, he twists everything around into more drama.

Did good at the funeral but had to fight at the wake (kinda along)

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We had the viewing for my now-deceased MIL-to be this past Sunday. It was the first time I ever had to deal with seeing someone who’d passed and I was scared…plus worried about exbitchface and her family going. I was a nervous wreck for two days and didn’t eat.
Neither of the skids had been to a funeral before, so seeing their gram was going to be kinda hard. SS13 and I agreed to go up together and see her so we could support each other. I asked him to be there in case I freaked out and ran away.lol

Recent developments: FH recants

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I was through with him the last time I posted. I have been sick of his crap for a while now. So I've been looking at new places to live and been out trying to get that all in order.
Well,the night of our fight, I came home and he was there(I thought he'd have left for work by the time I got home). So, we talk and he tells me he's sorry, yadda yadda yadda. I'm like, ok whatever. So then he asks where I was and I tell him some stories about where I was, but not that I was looking for a place to live.

This is the last straw for me. I'm done...this time for good.

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FH(now downgraded to bf) didn't bother to tell me about the skids having tutoring this morning. I was really sick last night and went to bed at 8pm. I got up at 6:50 this morning, which is pretty late for me so I was running behind. Bf comes home and wakes up the skids so they can get ready for something. I have to hurry in the bathroom and get out. I tell bf that he should have told me they had to be somewhere (tutoring as it turns out). Bf tells me I'm supposed to 'just know' since it is Tuesday. (He's never explained how it works).

Shattered Dreams

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Yesterday was the 1-year anniversary of when fh gave me the promise ring. A promise ring with the promise that it would be replaced with the engagement ring. Well that was a year ago and yesterday I got nothing. I ordered some typical irish stuff for dinner and since I get home late, asked him to pick it up(I'd prepaid so he just had to grab it). As usual, I'm home late and he's not there. I'd seen him and the skids shootin by me down the road heading to bm's where he must have been dropping them off.

Didn't take the bait (A "yay for me!" moment lol)

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The fh and skids went away all this weekend(since Thursday afternoon actually) for a hockey finals tournament. That left me all alone!!! Footloose and skid free for 4 days!!! It was amazing to feel free.
I cleaned the house...and it stayed clean. It smelled good, and nothing got dirty or broken. It was sooo nice.

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