OT(but kinda not)....how do you refi a house??????
I need advice from anyone since I haven't been down this road before.
FH divorced the evil bitchmonster and in the divorce decree she got one house, he got another but they are both on the mortgage for both houses (I think--I know for sure she's on our mortgage, because she works for a bank and we get a lower rate).
There was some sort of home equity loan as they were divorcing--they both took it out but she used it...whatever that means. So she owes $10,000 still on it.
Anyhoo, I need to figure out how to sort all this crap out. It all stems from their divorce/separation decrees. I need a lawyer to sort that all out and explain how to refi the house while dealing with all that crap left over from the divorce.
Do any of y'all know about refi because I'm clueless...and throw in the divorce nonsense and all her threats and I'm freaking out and need some good, smart advice.