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Sloppy Summer Schedule H#LL

Lillywy00's picture

Submitted by Lillywy00 on Tue, 05/30/2023 - 10:53am

Why is this dudes son still here after the holiday weekend? Why wasn't I consulted that he wouldn't be dropped off with his sibling like he should have been. 

Why do these bio kids with MULTIPLE kids take them back seperately instead of TOGETHER. Like no, it's not easier with less number of your kids, its easier with NONE of your kids.....

Why aren't these bio parents not using their court ordered visitation and just willy nilly sloppily scheduling their summer parenting?

THIS is why unstructured bio parents with sloppy summer schedules/kid-centered households should remain single until their kids are 18+

 

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justmakingthebest's picture

Submitted by justmakingthebest on Tue, 05/30/2023 - 11:49am

That would drive me bonkers. We set up finalizations of summer in April with my bios. Not saying there isn't something that might come up and we have to be flexible by a day or 2 but we know what we are doing and what plans are WELL in advance! We have been that way for the last 13 years! It's not rocket science to have a schedule and adhere to it. 

Rags's picture

Submitted by Rags on Sun, 06/04/2023 - 10:15pm

Why are Skid's kids in your home to begin with? Even one. Much less more than one.

Nope.

Nea

Your Skid needs to deal with his own spawn.

Lillywy00's picture

Submitted by Lillywy00 on Thu, 06/08/2023 - 9:14am

 we moved in together (I totally regret the decision) 

At the time his exwife agree to move out of town and take her spawns with her 

But a month into her stay she decides it's easier to make this dude here do ALL the work so she moves back in town right around the corner and pretends she can't parent her way out of a paper bag if it saved her life. 
 

So The exwife manipulation fest began (and now she's recruited her kids to her agenda)

step 1 - pretend you can't take care of your kids 

step 2 - run guilt trips on Disneyland dad so now he overcompensates

step 3 - make kids demand so much that he never has resources for another woman 

step 4 - exwife and skids has effectively run off new woman and now Disneyland dad is back to being their do-bitch

 

im in process of moving out bc it's clear this mf has no boundaries with his exwife, treats his kids like mini spouses, and never has money to take care of the household (I guess he erroneously thought I'd subsidize his lifestyle so he can keep letting his ex emotionally / financially run him into the ground)