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lieutenant_dad's picture

Read my previous blogs if you'd like to know my feelings about C**tucky (C'Tucky for short).

Her DH quit his job. Mind you, he is the "sole breadwinner" and I use that term loosely. She "can't work" so she raises her 3 SDs. They live in Section 8 housing in the middle of nowhere Kentucky. 

Well, they LIVED in Section 8 housing. C'Tucky posted on Facebook that they are being evicted and have no money/place to go. Cue calling my SF in tears. She wants a divorce. She can't keep doing this. Blah blah blah.

The only sentiment I can muster is "welp". C'Tucky has made her own bed, and she now needs to lay in it. She COULD have worked. She COULD havr come back to Anti-Canada and made a life here. She has had 33 years to figure out how to human, and it is none of our faults or responsibilities that she hasn't.

So, as the drama for my mother and SF unfold, my only thought on the matter is "welp".

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Siemprematahari's picture

Sometimes you got to fall and hit rock bottom in order to wake the heck up. Hopefully this will make her get her life together. This should be a wake up call to go back to school get an education, or learn a trade and be able to provide for yourself. This is no way to live.

lieutenant_dad's picture

She has yet to recognize that things are her fault.

When she found Jesus (insert major eyeroll), she expected everyone to forgive her because He had. She is angry because all of her siblings turned their back on her, but won't acknowledge that we all did it because she was physically (to SBro), emotionally (to SBro, my brother, and her stepsiblings), and financially (to EVERYONE) abusive. We all individually took a stand and said no more, either because we didn't want to get hurt or we couldn't stand to watch her hurt our parents or her kids any longer.

She has done absolutely nothing aside from "getting right with the Lord" to change herself. She has never acknowledged that her own actions caused her to lose her kids. She blames her mental health, but wouldn't do anything about it.

I hooe it's rock bottom because I'd like her to not drag anyone any lower. But this is a woman that allowed a BF to sexually abuse her daughter to keep him. I'm not holding my breath.

Cooooookies's picture

BM must be related to my BM.  Never went to any sort of schooling, lived off of my dad, divorced, worked as a waitress, never bettering herself or at least getting a job at a better restaurant with a bar to make decent money.  Lives with my brainwashed "brother" and his psychotic wanna-be-a-minister thieving pedophile abusive "husband", let them abuse my son, blamed my son and stuck up for them by trying to hide everything.  Could get out of the hell house but too lazy and martyring to help herself.  Too busy judging everyone else while helping them pay for the lifestyle they can't afford.  The other day my son said he doesn't really want to talk to Grandma anymore cuz she's so depressed.

And I just thought the same as you, OP.  Welp.  This is the life you chose.  Did ya think it was gonna be happy and fun?  Lie in the bed you've made.  Sorry not flipping sorry.