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My oh my, crazy is as crazy does...

lieutenant_dad's picture

A few small updates:

1.) C'Tucky broke up with Meth Dealer and moved back to Kentucky to be with her DH. You remember him, right? The one who told her that he kept quitting jobs because God told him to, was abusive toward her, and came out as trans. The one with three hellion daughters that called her "Mom" because their BM abandoned them? The one she pawned the television from and took the church car away from (which, BTW, literally burst into flames one evening last month). Yeah, she's back with him, and she's posting all their old "happy family" pictures again. Good riddance to bad rubbish.

2.) BM quit/was fired from a decent job making $15/hr and is now a register biscuit working retail. Why, might you ask? No idea. Explains why she has no money again. DH and I had a long chat while on vacation about how I'm tired of us working 40-60 hours a week and taking care of her useless arse working a retail gig. I foresee a new fight in the future with DH about money.

3.) Speaking of vacation, I finally got to go on one after over a year. I needed more than 11 days. Way. More.

4.) Back to BM, she posted something on social media regarding either her dating crazies or turning the folks she dates into crazies. New BF seems less than thrilled by that posting.

5.) BM also changed her social media name back to DH's last name. Why so long after she legally changed it back, I have no idea.

6.) Struggles are real on the vas reversal front. Hit a snag in the road with possible swelling and no swimmers in DH's first sample. He goes back in 2 weeks for a follow-up after a megaton of prednisone. Hopefully it works.

There may be more, but these are the highlights. Steplife is making me cringe ultra-hard at the moment. I'm just going to continue trying to disengage and not let it take up brain space (but share with you lovelies for entertainment purposes).

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mommadukes2015's picture

Sending all the good vibes to you and those soon to be swimmers! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 

lieutenant_dad's picture

Thank you! We know they exist, and the surgeon said this is common since DH had the more invasive reversal. He has commented that the swelling had decreased that he has noticed, so I'm hopeful.

justmakingthebest's picture

Oh wow! Just wow! #1 had my jaw drop for real!

I really hope you guys get good news in a couple of weeks with the swimmers. I know a few couples that had the reversal done. They had varying degrees of it working (couple natural pregnancies, couple of insemination) but all in all they were successful. I hope you guys are able to be! 

lieutenant_dad's picture

C'Tucky is a special breed of special. I haven't had a chance to have a sideline conversation with my mom with my SF around, so I don't know details.

Regarding the swimmers, we'll know soon. I'm anxious because, if his reversal fails, we're going to donor route due to cost. 

CLove's picture

And crossing my fingers for good measure.

BM over here has been messing with my mailbox. I might have to charge her with something...

DHsfamilyfromhell's picture

My husband had a vasectomy reversal in an October a good few years ago now. I seem to remember finding out I was pregnant on the April fools day after so took about six months for us. Sending you good vibes and lots of luck