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Just an update on me and ds

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Hi everyone, it's been a while. Sd and best friend got into a fight when sd stole her friends boyfriend. So best friend told her mom what really happened with ds and sd and mom came to see me. Her best friend gave a statement to our lawyer and the police. They dropped the charges. Sd and her friend told ds excatly what they wanted him to do and when he should do it. She admitted they set him up because sd didn't want to live with ds and me because of my rules. She was successful. I called ex and told him but he didn't beleive me. Sd is still an attempted rape victim to him.

Ds was arrested

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Im just going to pour my heart out here since I can't talk about this at home or with my friends. While ds was in treatment he sent an email to sd apologizing for what he did and he explained to her he thought she wanted him to go into her room by what her and her friends had talked about. They told him how hot they thought it would be to wake up to a guy kissing them and other bullsh!t. They totally set him up!! Sd gave the email to dh and his parents and then dh pressed charges. Ds was arrested at school in front of everyone.

Bs tried to kill himself

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This has been one of the worst weeks of my life. Bs was beaten up at school on Monday by sd's friends he thought were also his. 3 of them attacked him before class. They were suspended but told everyone bs was a rapist who tried to rape sd. Bs was so humiliated he attempted to hang himself. He is in the hospital and we are seeing a different dr. I've agreed to let him be committed and right now we are working through insurance to see what we have coverage wise and how long it will last. I have a meeting with his team this afternoon.

DH left me last night

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Sd accused bs of going into her room Tuesday night and touching her inappropriately. Dh believes her and after a huge fight they left. I don't believe sd. Bs swears he didn't do it and I believe him. Dh and sd can stay gone, she is NEVER allowed near me or ds again! DH also called the police and I have to get a lawyer for bs. I can't believe this is happening to us.

This board is the best

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Thank you so much for all the support you guys have given me. Without it I would be lost. You guys have supported me and given me advice on not only Bear and my sd but also my bs. I just wanted to give a heart felt thank you to you kind souls! I don't have a job that allows me to post most days but I do log in, read and send good wishes to everyone.

Ds snuck out last night

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Last night sd comes running into our room at midnight, flips on the light and screams DADDY THERE ARE MEN OUTSIDE MY WINDOW. Dh grabs his gun and I run into ds room and he isn't there so I check the bathroom, kitchen, living room and basement. I couldn't find him so I ran back upstairs thinking he was in the room with dh and sd but he wasn't. I tell dh ds is gone and we realize it was ds outside sds window. Dh goes outside and ds is gone. I called his cell phone and sent him a text to get home now. 5 minutes later he was back home and pissy.

I need parenting help

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First it was pot and I tried not to get to worried. I grounded him for 2 weeks and he saw his counselor. She assured me that many kids experiment and i shouldn't freak out. Saturday sd and ds went to a friends house from school for a birthday party and dh and I stayed in and watched movies. In the middle of the movie dh starts messing with his phone and blows up a picture of ds standing behind someone drinking a beer. He called sd and asked where the party was and we were on our way. I asked dh where he got the picture and he said it was on sds Instagram.

Ds did drugs and had some in his room

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I'm stunned right now. Ds is not a kid I would have ever expected to even try drugs. Up until this year he didn't have any friends and he never left the house due to him being really shy and having anxiety. I have seen so much growth with him that over the summer I allowed him to quit therapy because he started complained about it and didn't want to go anymore. I really thought we were headed in the right direction with him. I called his therapist and she wants to see him but he is refusing to go which is also very unlike him.

Sd is home

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Dh went and picked her up from marching band practice at school. She listened when he told her to get in the car and he went straight to the airport. Sd was upset but that was expected. Dh notified the cops ahead of time that he was picking her up so bm couldn't say she was kidnapped. Once they were on the plane dh sent bm a text that sd was with him like the C/O dictates. Bm was pissed but there was nothing she could do. Sd is home and mad at both her parents. Dh has offered her drum lessons but she doesn't see the point right now.

Bm trying to keep sd

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Last time I posted bm refused to let sd do her summer visitation in June. She insisted on doing it in July so sd would miss marching band here and put her in marching band there, which is exactly what bm did and now sd doesn't want to come back. Sd originally refused to go and bm showed up here and made her go which is what dh is going to have to do to get her back. Bm enrolled sd in school there and dh is in the process of un enrolling her since he has custody.

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