If the world as we know it ends, I get to live with bm if I want dh
Counseling isn't going as well as I wanted it to. The counselor hasn't come out and said dh was right to stay with ss she just wants me to imagine leaving my dd in a hurricane with someone I felt couldn't protect her. No one cares that ss is a teenager and could survive on his own if he had to and dd is a toddler. My feelings are still hurt and I feel that I can't depend on dh when I need him the most and I want to focus on that. The therapist has assigned us homework, me to write down all the times dh was there for me and when he wasn't and dh to do the same.
Bm's boyfriend is a prepper, like hard core prepper and we need to be perpared to survive anything and everything. This weekend ss started asking dh if he had plans for a disaster. Like if Yellowstone blew (cause apparently bms boyfriend thinks its gonna blow soon, If a virus breaks out (government engineered accident wink wink), Asteroid strike (we escaped a hit last week of our chin hairs :? ) ect. Dh told him that we would go to him figure out what to do next. I didn't say anything but I asked dh later what he meant by that and we talked. He said that ss won't leave his mom so any plans we have have to include her. I told him okay but if a disaster like that happens go to ss first and don't wait on me and dd because we will not be coming. I told him I refuse to spend the rest of mine and dd's time with that c@nt. Dh laughed and didn't take me seriously but I mean it. If a disaster strikes dd and I will be on our own and dh can go with them.
I've started looking into go bags that ss talks about and I'm making one for dd and I in case of emergency. I figure if a emp strikes or something at least we will have food and water and warm clothes. Dh asked what I was putting into his and I said I wasn't making him one because I don't know what him and his family need. I'm getting the cold shoulder now but I don't care.
Does anyone have an evacuation plan and do you include the bios and steps? How are other families doing this?