BM kissing DHs arse....Why?!?!
I recently wrote a blog about how BMs/XHs change when they're in a relationship. Why? IDK. Now BM is really kissing DHs ass!!!
I was thinking Bm changes for the better when she's single because maybe she realises how she really messed up her life. Maybe she feels she can act "Normal" because she has no one to prove herself to. Maybe she acts sweet and normal because she wants him back. I don't know. But this strange {normal} behavior only happens when BM doesn't have a flavor of the month.
It seems as though she might want DH back. I don't know why though. She never actually "wanted" him. She just didn't want anyone else to have him and she didn't and doesn't want him happy. She just loves the control of being Puppet Master using DH and SD as her little puppets to control and manipulate. It makes me sick.
Back to my original point..lol
BM has been really kissing DHs ass lately. She NEVER goes to the pick up or drop offs when she has a man. Usually her parents drop off SD, or BM has her sister do it. Anyway, BM has been going to the pick up and drop offs ever since her and her BF broke up. She has actually been talking to DH during the exchange ..Just very chatty and happy go lucky towards him(RARE) She has also been communicating like a normal person too. For example: Tuesday was DHs two hour visit with SD. BMs sister was 15 minutes late, BM calls DH (Ican't remember why) and DH says "Your sister is 15 minutes late" BM response was "Really?!?! I'm sooo sorry, I will have a talk with my sister, and you can Obviously keep SD longer if you like to make up for the time" WHAT?!?!! BM has NEVER, EVER offered any kind of extra time, any make up time, never been so sweet. WTF Is going on here?!?! DH texted BM when he was at the church to drop off SD at 8:15 PM. I guess BM was very sorry for her sister being late. ??
11:45PM DH gets a text. He had a puzzled look on his face, I asked who it was and he showed me the text...from BM... "I just got your text from ealier. LOL. I'm really sorry my sister was late for the drop off. I'll talk to her" WTF? BM has never been apologetic for anything in her life. DH didn't respond. He looked at me and said "wow she's such a dipshit"
Any thoughts on this? Anyone else deal with this sweet then evil shit from their BM in their siuation? Any ideas of why?
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1. Pay the bills (financial
1. Pay the bills (financial stability)
2. Watch and care for the kids (free time all she wanted)
3. Stand by me when we are in public (perception of a marriage)
4. Don't touch me, ever (no sex)
5. Follow my commands or else (control)
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OMG!! You described BM Exactly!! I mean Exactly! No touching, no sex, control and yet, the fake perception of a perfect relationship in pubilc!
It would be great and I wouldn't complain if this was the regular BM, but like you said..We worry even more when BM is being nice because they seem so easy to read. We know they're up to something and that is scary because we never know what these women are thinking or have up their sleeve. :?
YES - Mine is totally
YES - Mine is totally coo-coo. It absolutely can revolve around her relationships. However, sometimes there is a mood swing and we just don't know why. First, we do our best to enjoy the "normal" while it lasts but we are always leery of what's next. Sometimes BM is "normal" because she wants something. Sometimes she is "normal" because she is somehow causing someone else to be miserable and we are off the radar. Sometimes she is "normal" because...I don't know why...she is having a good day?! It is creepy when it happens for no apparent reason!
Oh yes, we can tell when BM
Oh yes, we can tell when BM is in a relationship because she switches back to evil, and we can also tell when she is having boyfriend trouble because she goes back to being nice. It's funny you mention that she is happy when she is making someone elses life hell. BM has been known for that, while she was with her BF she was making HIS exwife miserable for a short while and she was so focused on making this woman unhappy that she left DH alone. She found a new play toy. It's very sickening and disturbing :sick: