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Well DH is now dumb husband

Lady.Tremaine's picture

First off: missed you guys  I lurk a lot but don't  comment as much anymore. 

The eldest is now glued to her tablet constantly.  DH is to his phone . So thats been... fun

Well I recently switched from netflix to hbo max due to netflix canceling a favorite  show of mine.  So since SD5 left today its literally all personal screen time. Like the house is pin drop quiet.

I found out they had school of rock on hbo max which I loved as a kid. She was already  busy so I was doing this for myself and maybe to get some family time interest  

I fire up the ps4 and DH immediately  says no we are enjoying  quiet time. I turn it off and give him a look as in " this is my home too why would you do this?" Look

He says im being "emotional due to wine " in front of the kid

Good example to your daughter you sack of feces. Let her know women should  be treated  this way. Im never being the nice step mom I was today. Teaching them to read instructions to bake. I'm  not sure I want to be that wife I was today either. Making food he loved and craved.

I'm  not going to leave quite yet but oh boy will I make him regret this. We are supposed to see his family for pizza in the park ( social distancing ) but im not sure I want to. I love them but I'm starting to hate him.

 

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tog redux's picture

I'd have kept going and watched the show. He can go have quiet time in another room. Don't let him treat you like a child.

Cover1W's picture

DH once told me that I was "....like an alcoholic, I couldn't stop..." In reference to me asking YET AGAIN for him to clean the disaster of a kitchen.

He said this in front of YSD. I was simply shocked. I said not one more word, left the rest of my dinner on the table and went to the bedroom for the night. We talked the next day. Told him I would leave if he ever spoke to me so derogatorily again, especially in front of SD. 

He's never done it again. And has kept up with the kitchen cleaning better.

Livingoutloud's picture

Your DH is a jerk and sadly has always been a jerk, it's not new. And since he knows he can get away with pretty much everything and anything, he has no incentive to improve. 

Peach's picture

WTF?  You are a grown woman that can do as she pleases.  You don't need anyone making decisions for you.  He sounds like a joy.

halo1998's picture

that's a new one.  SMh....my DH would have found that answer when he wanted nookie the next time.

 

I'm sorry..shops closed..I'm too emotional from the wine.