Some happy news - I have a pretty great SM
So there's a ton of negative blogs on ( mine included) so let's get some happy stuff here
My dad started dating my SM when I was around ten or so. While I love my dad he can be a piece of work. My SM is straight up and extremely honest. Also never drinks , uses, really the woman just has cats as her weakness.
So I called my dad's house and got my step mom. We talked for 30 minutes straight and while as the kid it isn't my place to know she explained why my dad was being insane a few weeks back.
He apparently went on a giant alcohol bender. While again- should I know ? But I'm happy she told me as things made a lot more sense. I'm happy he has a woman like her at his side and have told him not to mess this up. It's been enough time and he needs to act like a man not like a little drunk.
And no mini wife situation here. He doesn't need me to tell him to get his act in gear . I just don't want him mistreating this woman. But I'm so happy I have a SM that can handle his BS. We aren't overly lovey but there's a great sense of trust. I can tell her things if they happen without dad needing to know and that works both ways
So when someone posts here about a total brat adult stepkid I get so confused. Do these kids have zero compassion ? Do they just want attention as a COD? It baffles me.
Ok that ended not so positive...