SO and what they owe ex step kids
First off I lurk here off my username so often and am thankful for all the venting and advice. Great to feel not alone.
Long story short I moved across the country with my FH to be by his kids. Things are great with the kids for the most part.
FH informs me last week his ex is taking the kids to see her family a few states away for the weekend. Awesome! First whole weekend alone together we've had in along time
She has a 16 year old from another man. Dude was a dead beat so my FH has always sort have been a remote father figure. We receive word a few days later there's a chance he wants to stay in town. He's been a bit of a trouble maker lately so the ex asks us to stay at hers at night to make sure he is in on time
I was happy to find out he slipped up again so she was going to force him to go with her. Apparently the kid tells her his high school registration is this Saturday so he has to be in town.
For a quick second I was optimistic as my SD 6 blurted her brother was coming. Cool I thought to myself. Maybe FH is planning a nice romantic surprise and sticking to a story.
Sure enough I check the district page and the kid is not lying- he has to be at the school saturday.
Dreams crushed sure but how is it ok for the baby momma to decide we are free teen care? On top of that how does she not plan her vacation around knowing when to have her son ready for school?
I think FH thinks the ex son is his responsibility as he's already discussed helping him pay for school but I don't know how to tell my FH to back up a lil without sounding like a...