My jilted proposal / Mr. Used to have it
Not to blog hog but two stories in one! Yay I feel the years coming for me.
So in past blogs you've seen how DH takes talks about BM being just... Fun
Their AC broke 3 weeks ago. It was fixed in a day
Did that stop BM ? Nope. She takes the kids from home every few days to stay at a hotel. And switched hotels as out here you have to give a reason to stay currently.
Did that stop BM from having the kids playing with other kids ? Per the kids.. no.
So they are once again going to another hotel the kids are excited. I've learned to say "good for you" in a great tone.
Now normally I'd have a conversation with DH like um love maybe we should talk to her etc etc
Tonight I had a different plan
" Hey love- so I want a compromise"
"What is it?"
" Well you and I get so upset about BM being BM so I thought maybe I'll never talk to you about that and never see her unless it's a graduation etc?"
" Ugggjj my head hurts can we talk about this later?!?"
Jesus he carries himself like a 14 year old sometimes.
And round 2 ( electric bogaloo )
I started cleaning out files in my weird desk.
His tax return from 2016 was in there.
This man used to pull 150k a year ?!?
And I supported him on 40 or less.
I don't love people for money but damn BM - moving was sure a good call ? Where your ex can't pull that money because it's another poor state. Good on you you strong independent woman.
I find it ironic as had we stayed home I'd almost seem like a sugar baby ( back home I was 23 and he was 40) but alas I've been pulling a lot of weight.
Welp. That was a nice discovery.