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The bad The good and the Jesus why

Lady.Tremaine's picture

The bad :

Welp BM showed DH SD6s report card. She is behind in math, reading , and vocabulary/ comp.

She also missed OVER 30 days of school this year. Good job BM. 

The good:

Since that happened I put my early childhood classes from high school to work. DH is a little strict so making her some MS word worksheets featuring characters she likes seemed like something to do in my down time.

She finished the easy one visiting today. Loved it. Only had an issue with one problem which we will revisit this weekend. Wanted me to pull out the harder ones asap. Instead I had her a read a short book . Took awhile but she's getting there

The Jesus why:

After that we took the girls to feed the fish and turtles in our complex. I keep telling DH to please take the girls back if the turtles are too close. Welp there was 6 turtles by SD6 , SD3 wanted to rush over but we get them both away. All fine and dandy. 

DH decides it's ok for him to feed ( snappy bitey ) turtles in front of the kids. Almost. Out. Of . His . Hand

Our insurance cards aren't in. I'm pissed because I told him ten times to not. I flat out told him in front of the kids he was setting a bad example. He gets pissy about that. Lovely.

 

Resolved but still. Disengagement would be bliss if I didn't think the impact I have with the oldest is important. It is. She'd rather study with me than DH as Im more compassionate and take time on the issues.

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Ispofacto's picture

Missing 30 days of school is completely unacceptable.  DH needs to do something about that.

 

Lady.Tremaine's picture

"what can I do ?"

A lot of this stems from a written agreement instead of a CO and a lack of a house if court was to happen

I agree and we know first hand it's because the kids miss days to go see family in a different state and that BM goes on little field trips with them. When we took the eldest to Disney for a weekend we didn't even take her out of school that Friday. Luckily all texts from her pulling this nonsense are saved...

 

 

thinkthrice's picture

received a citation bc her kid missed 40 days.  MOTY Girhippo has had verbal warnings due to YSS missing 23 days of school and excessive tardiness.