My mother ( aka a total bad ass if anyone remembers that blog) was found by my sister at home not very responsive today.

My sister called ambulance and my mother has a hemorrhage in her brain. She's currently in a medically induced coma with no word of how this will pan out.

I feel like I left my family to move so far for my husband and his kids. Now I feel like a complete traitor leaving my sister alone to deal with this. 

It's been awhile. Since I last posted I ended up caving as I always do. I started picking up the kids due to my husband's work. I pick them up for all visitation besides every other Thursday when BM drops them off.

Friday night started off not so great. During the 15 or 20 minutes before SO got home the kids took to destroying things ( throwing candyland pieces everywhere, taking all the rubber bands I had on their brush off and flinging them about)

*hard sigh* 

So back in I want to say May or so DH brought up BM may be taking the kids to see her brother in quite a few states away ( like day drive states away)

Now last he and I spoke of it he had said they may not due to COVID. Well today he says yes they are going after all and he totally told me and I must have just forgot. Um no DH you didn't you just like to sneak things and drop them off when possible. 

Anyways so I asked about will he be seeing / having the skids over afterwards. He said "we'll play it by ear"

Hope everyone has been doing ok with everything going down. Things aren't great here but I've thrown complaining to the wind as I'm voice is to deaf ears so I'm beginning the semi disengaging process. Here's a decent story to brighten at least maybe my day. 

So my mother finally started seeing someone a few months ago. Well seeing someone to the point of telling me. She never remarried after my father. Had a few engagements but the last one was over 15 years ago. Guy was in the midst of a divorce and left my mother once she got a cancer diagnosis. Great guy... -_-