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Is this wrong????

ladybugz80's picture

So I started spring cleaning. I despise my SK BM and her clinger in the worst possible way. Is it so wrong that I want to chuck almost everything that the kids bring back from her house? The kids usually only bring it back because she wants them to. For instance SS is wearing a pair of PJ pants that I know came from her house and I just want them to go away and in my mind ANYTHING to do with her is bad, evil and sadistic. So if they aren't in my home its not a trigger.

I know it sounds silly but it seems like she implants things in the skids so they don't forget about her. We have tried to explain to the kids why they came to live with us ( BM was suicidal and threatened to kill them) and it just seems like they think she can do no harm and that we just make these stories up.

Just like this past weekend she had to put a show on for her sister from out of province and make it look like she is the good parent. Yet for the past year she has done nothing let alone pay any CS.

Just so frustrated

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ladybugz80's picture

Its not a lot of stuff and some I honestly don't think they would notice if it never came back from the laundry pile or got lost in the toy box type thing..

ladybugz80's picture

This is exactly how I feel to a T!!! Anything to with her just makes me want to have violent tenancies...

DarkStar's picture

I have thrown away inappropriate triangle string bikini tops and booty short shorts without telling anyone. Fortunately all the skids are slobs and misplace stuff all the time so no one even asks where things are it's just assumed it's lost at BMs lair, I mean home.