You can't fix stupid
EDIT: Wow I did not expect so many negative reactions to this post. I thought people on here could read it, laugh, and move on with their day. That's what I would do. I am not asking for advice in this blog, don't expect me to want to read yours.
BM struts around like she's God's gift to mankind, so I take secret pleasure when she falls on her face. Which is a lot. This past month she did something so stupid that I have to share.
She's been riding a motorcycle for a little over a year, because when her and DH broke up he gave her the bike. He was the only one who rode it/took care of it/whatever, but because of his bad credit when they bought it it was in her name. She used it as ammo to try and control him so he gave it back immediately.
Anyway, she got endorsed and she's been riding it around. Her last boyfriend dumped her because of another friend she has (we'll call her Amanda). Anyway apparently Amanada is so stupid and annoying that BM's boyfriend literally told her "It's me or her, pick one." She picked Amanda. Amanda is 18, btw, and BM is 23, so it's all very odd to me, but DH doesn't ask her many questions about her life.
Last month BM told DH that she had co-signed a motorcycle for Amanda. A brand-new motorcycle. Amanda doesn't even know how to ride, and like I said she's only 18, so DH and I knew it wouldn't end well.
Yesterday when DH went to pick up SS, BM started whining to him about how Amanda blew the clutch out twice since getting the bike one month ago. That is not cheap to fix, but BM paid for it because Amanda has no money. THEN BM told DH that Amanda couldn't even make the first month's payment.
So BM now owes money on a car and two motorcycles, one of which has already cost her a few thousand dollars in repairs because Amanda doesn't know how to shift gears.
BM and Amanda are no longer friends, BM is a mountain of debt, and now she's begging DH for advice. He told her she was stupid for ever being involved with Amanda in the first place, as no one in her family likes her and even her boyfriend dumped her over the girl.
Oh, and did I mention BM is quitting her second job right as this debt is piling up on her because she doesn't like the job anymore? Real smart, honey, real smart.