We're finally going to court
DH and BM were never married. They've gone by a verbal agreement about visitation with SS, and so far it's worked okay although if you've read my other posts you know BM is a massive b*tch. Anyway, last night BM told DH that she's moving about three states away. He asked her, "Can I get it in writing that you will let me see my son when you leave?" She said "Nope." According to her, DH has never done a single thing to help SS *eyeroll* and she doesn't care if he ever sees his son again. Yeah, forget the fact that we bought groceries for SS when BM couldn't afford to, forget the fact that DH has had SS the majority of the time since they split while BM is off living her best life, forget the fact that DH keeps his son when he has him while BM is constantly ditching SS with her family when it's her time to have him. But DH has never done anything for his son.
Thankfully DH and I were prepared for this, we already had all of the paperwork filled out, it just needed to be filed. She told him she was moving last night, we filed the papers today. In my state once paternity is legally established neither parent can move more than 50 miles away from the other. Thank God BM is as dumb as she is. She actually told DH "I'm moving and there's nothing you can do to stop me." I just wish I could be there when the sheriff serves her the papers so I could see the look on her ugly face. Try to take my SS away I don't think so.