BM is a wacka-do. She told DH that she actually is going to contest the paternity packet, which isn't all that surprising. Then she said she wants SS every other weekend, or one weekend a month, whichever is more convenient for her. Whatever.
DH and BM were never married, but when SS was born he was given DH's last name. BM is now saying she's going to add to the paternity packet and demand that SS's last name be changed to hers. She said she doesn't want him to have the same last name as someone who "isn't even family," aka me. It's actually insane to me how much she hates me. Or hates the idea of me, whatever.
After being a class A b*tch and saying all that crazy garbage she asked DH to come over this weekend to help her fill out the packet so she could contest him. Absolutely nuts. He told her nah, you can figure it out on your own.
She has 12 more days to file a response and I seriously can't wait to see what a judge will say to her wanting to change her son's last name out of spite.
Also, even though she was extremely adament that DH would not see SS until a judge ordered her to hand him over, she needs DH to watch SS tonight. She has to work and her family is tired of picking up her slack I guess. So we'll get to see SS (haven't seen him since June 23rd), and I'm really hoping BM hasn't been filling his head with "Daddy is stupid" talk, because that will be heartbreaking for DH.