Counting the days until court
In other news BM is crazy and I don't understand how she can be so delusional. I might be the only person who is interested by her behavior, but it just boggles my mind so much I can't help but post about it.
DH went six weeks without seeing SS because BM is bitter, crazy, controlling, etc. He was finally able to get SS this past weekend (after the magistrate threatened BM), and we had a great time together. Of course BM insisted that she get a phone call from SS every night before bed, which is something she has never done (and probably will never do) for DH.
The last text message conversation DH had with BM before she agreed to let him have SS for the weekend she sarcastically called him an amazing father, and berated him for not caring about his son. The son she kept from him for six weeks, with him weekly texting her and asking to see SS.
Thankfully both DH and BM have decided to meet at a McDonalds inbetween our houses. BM doesn't want to come to our house and risk seeing me, and BM threatened DH with trespassing if he ever went back to her sister's house. So on Friday afternoon, DH went to pick SS up. BM started arguing with him in the parking lot that he needed to give her all of SS's clothes back that she bought him. This is probably the 15th time she's brought this up and tried to start a fight. Every single time DH reminds her that she has clothes at her sister's house that we bought for SS. He told her that he'll trade the clothes, but that it's ridiculous to for her to demand clothes back when she won't give us ours back..
Friday night when DH called BM to let SS say goodnight, BM was gaggable. "MY BABYY!! MUAH MUAH MUAH I love you so much sunshine how ARE you??? Are you having fun? I miss you so much baby. Sweet dreams sunshine, I love you." Even if I didn't know how insane she was it would still be gross. Did I mention she dropped SS off with three different over-the-counter meds because he had a slight cough??
Saturday night we had plans, and while we were out DH got a text from BM. She texted, "Take SS to the mall, kids are trick or treating atm." He showed me the text because he honestly couldn't figure out why she was texting him that. I reminded him how controlling she is. It's his time with SS, yet she needs to control as much of that time as possible. Not to mention, she probably knew that kids were trick or treating at the mall at that moment because she was there. As much as she says she hates DH, she seems to want to spend a lot of time with him still. Thankfully he ignored the text and she never followed up.
Sunday night DH called her again so SS could say goodnight, and it was a 180 from Friday night. No screaming, no kissy noises, no gross, overbearing mommy garbage. Literally, "Hi sunshine, are you getting ready for bed? I love you, sweet dreams," *click* Her voice sounded dead-pan and she hung up before SS could even respond to her, which upset him for a minute.
Monday morning DH dropped SS off and he told me it went perfectly. BM didn't say a word to him and he didn't say a word to her. Couldn't have gone better if you ask me.