BM got her phone fixed so she's texting again
For a long time, DH and I have had to deal with BM constantly texting him dumb things about still being in love with him, wanting him back, yada yada. He has made it perfectly clear that he is MARRIED and that he won't be getting back together with her. She has asked him a lot of questions (that he won't answer), like "Are you happy with ladybug?" "Do you think you'll ever marry her?" and other stuff like that. When she finally accepted the fact that we were married she would ask him all the time why he married me. The first time she asked he said it was because he loves me. Every time she asked after that he refused to answer. She even asks all the time why he wears a wedding band. She's a psycho who doesn't deserve his time.
For the past two months BM's phone was broken and she couldn't text, and that was the nicest two months ever. Any time she needed to contact DH she had to use one of her sister's phones, and because she doesn't want her sisters to know that she's still trying to get DH back (they hate DH), all of the texts were strictly about SS. But she got her phone fixed a few days ago and the first text she sent him was, "I know why you got married." At 3am. GIVE UP. He didn't text her back. We have no idea what she's insinuating and we really don't care. I just don't understand how someone could be so jealous, egotistical, and stupid that she could actually believe he married me for some reason other than falling in love.
We've been married for a year and a half and we're still dealing with this. I thought that not being able to text him for a few months would be good for her, but apparently she's had some things she's wanted to get off her chest during that time. She could be thinking that he got me pregnant so we got married, but if that's the case then where's the baby? Neither one of us have much money so he didn't marry me for that. Those are really the only options I can think of.
Knowing her we'll find out soon enough what her genius theory is about our marriage, and I'm kind of excited to hear it. The dumb b!tch doesn't understand what love is or what a healthy relationship looks like. She's always telling DH "Don't tell ladybug I said this but..." because she thinks any normal relationship is built on lies. Such a basket-case I wish her phone would break again.