Should I say something to BM?
So if you read my last blog, DH and I sold SS17 my old car and BM tried to tell him that we asked for too much money, and that we're trying to cheat and scam him out of money because of some water damage he caused a while back.
So last night DH and I talked to SS17, pulled up the Kelley Blue Book site, showed him the trade in value vs. the private party sale value, explained to him the difference and talked about the price we sold it to him. We wanted to make sure he felt good about the purchase.
Then SS17 mentioned that the paint on the car was peeling off, which shocked me because I have never seen that anywhere on the car. SS17 said that BM had sent him a picture of it. So apparantly when BM came to pick up skids for her weekend visitation, she got out of her car and started taking pictures of the car we sold SS17 (which technically is still my car until SS17 pays it off in 6 months!). I was already pissed that she's trying to talk crap about us, and now I'm even more pissed that shes coming on my property and taking pictures!
We had SS17 take us out and show us the area where BM thought paint was peeling, I rubbed it with my finger and sure enough, no paint peeling, it's just fracking dirt!!!!
DH said he's not going to say anything to BM because it's just going to cause a fight and nothing will come of it. Which I understand, but I feel like she needs to be called out on her BS. I'm thinking of sending her a message myself, which I basically never do. If I do say something I want it to come across firm, but not rude or mean in case she tries to show the skids and use it against me.
What do y'all think....should I call her out or just leave it alone....and what should I say?!