So when school started they weren't supposed to be here at durring the week. And only be here every other weekend. That for some reason changed to me being required to take them to and from school because she never picks them up... ever... on Saturday she does.... for the night. Picks them up 8pm drops them back off 2pm the next day.
I honestly wouldn't care that much if I wasn't paying her money every month to take care of them...
she claimed she spent 400 dollars on new clothes backpacks and school stuff however they have 2 shirts and two pants each... which at Walmart the same brand is 5 dollars for the shirt and 5 for the pants... math that's 40. The backpacks are obviously off brand dollar store so let's be generous and say 30. She only got one of them shoes and they are knock off vans bought at the dollar store... 10 dollars for the same pair (yes I looked) and school supplies? Pack of cheap mechanical pencils 1$ 2 binders 2 pencil cases the knock off crayons(yes not even crayola come on.... they were only 25 cents more) so total I'd say 100 bucks. Oh and 10 dollar haircuts.
I bought them lunch boxes because school lunch was apperently some new age vegan crap and they give them pretty much nothing
i bought them water bottles
i have been taking care of haircuts
i have been waking them up every morning because my husband works getting them ready packing their lunch signing their books making them breakfast
and I don't mind doing it, but where is the mother in all this? Making excuses
"I was tested for COVID 15 times this week so I'm being quarenteened" saw the b at Walmart all dressed up with her boyfriend....
next week "oh I worked late all week I couldn't pick them up" you work at a 9-5 doctors office as a receptionist .... trust me I checked.
then she claims she works every weekend too at some clothing store.
what I'm asking is, what can I do about not getting screwed in this situation. Everytime I tell her to pick up her damn kids it's a fight. I'm over it I just want full custody so I don't have to pay her for absolutely nothing