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WTF... does being a "skid" automatically translate to "stupid and lazy?"

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Submitted by knucklehead on Thu, 06/07/2012 - 10:01pm

Argh.... seriously, how hard is it to actually put $20K+ in "secondary educational expenses" to USE and actually...oh, PASS the program?!?
DH's two adult children are either ridiculously stupid, or ridiculously lazy.

SS23 took a "hotel" program but couldn't graduate because there was a "problem with his internship hours." Yeah, right, whatever. DH asked him if he's followed up AGAIN (since it's now been MONTHS that he missed graduating) and no, SS just doesn't want to deal with it because it pisses him off.

Feeling overwhelmed and...sad...

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Submitted by knucklehead on Wed, 05/30/2012 - 12:29am

You know those moments when you just kinda feel like everything is coming down around you... yeah, that's me tonight.
I am just SO tired of the drama that comes with my DH's entire stinkin' family. His kids suck. They are selfish, unkind people (at least they're "adults" now.) My DH's family is SOFAR up BM's ass that if they sneeze, her hair flutters.
ANYTHING Dh tells his family goes straight to BM. My ILs think she "beautiful inside and out" (that's a direct quote) and since she is no longer their daughter in law, she is their "daughter in LOVE" (another direct quote.)

Vent...language... Mother's Day sucked

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Submitted by knucklehead on Sun, 05/13/2012 - 9:24pm

Seems to be a rather common theme on here today.
I just want to whine and throw myself a pity party.
I have kids, LOTS of kids. I've raised, am raising, or at least had a hand in raising 6 kids.

I'm STILL waiting for a "Happy Mother's Day" from my husband.
He fucked up last MD for me, too, and "made up" (haha) for it by giving me a Father's day card.
WTF.
At least my bios managed to wish me a happy md. My one SD who I think of as my own texted and wants to Skype me (she lives on her own now) and sent me a card.

Irritated, exhausted, not sure if I give a shit anymore...language...

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Submitted by knucklehead on Wed, 04/25/2012 - 12:20pm

Ugh. You can read in previous blogs about SS suddenly coming around DH. He's 23 and lives with my ILs 300 miles away. (God forbid he actually, oh, supports himself!)
Haven't heard from the little shit since last July. DH dutifully sent a Christmas gift (although it was a charitable donation in SS's name) and then nothing for his birthday in Jan. Neither SD nor SS have so much as sent a TEXT wishing DH a happy birthday in 3 years.

Awww, HELL

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Submitted by knucklehead on Tue, 04/24/2012 - 11:56am

I previously blogged about SS coming around again. Not sure why. I'd bet a dollar he wants $$, and I'd bet $3 he wants to chew DH a new asshole about being a shitty father.
I'd bet $5 he wants to tell him how awful I am. }:)
He originally wanted to meet for dinner.
Now he wants to meet today for lunch. (Fool probably thought I wanted to attend, and DH works in a different county than I do.) DH has the day off. (Rough life.)
Only thing is, DH has a VERY important interview this afternoon.

Trying not to be suspicious of SS... but failing!

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Submitted by knucklehead on Mon, 04/23/2012 - 10:31am

So, my DH's lovely adult children don't speak with him. They are both early 20's. His daughter is a snot and a half, and stopped talking to him because he wouldn't divorce me to make her happy. (She is convinced that DH left BM for me, even though that's not the case.) Whatever.
DH has always been an involved father. The time and money he spent on these two ingrates is amazing, but the fact they wrote him off is sickening.

Vent as a BM this time...

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Submitted by knucklehead on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 11:23am

I'm so frustrated. This step thing is hard on both sides...the step AND the bio. I've been a step as long as I've been a bio, and both are right about 20 years of each.

My youngest is 11, and has stomach issues she inherited from me. Sad Heating pads can help. We have two. One is in my room and one is usually upstairs in the closet or in her room.

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