Poop, so much poop
I've rewritten this 8,000 times.
FDH and I are sick of SD6 pooping her pants. She does it on purpose, when she's angry and out of laziness. We've done everything. Start-charts, making her clean up after herself, having her go to the DR, ignoring it, freaking out about it, rewards, and the other direction taking stuff away, reasoning with her (hah!), threatening her, making her sit for 30mins after every meal, flat out making her sit on the toilet every hour for 15min regardless of what's going on. She does not poop herself at school, she's in first grade. BM2 claims "she NEVER does that to me!" but when we had to do the school shopping thing, SD6 shit her pants at the mall and BM just let her walk around like that.
FDH is over it, I am over it. We've had to leave parties, outings, what-have-you because princess poop get's amd and shits her pants. SD6 was put in a pull up (she wets the bed so we always have some) after she shit herself yesterday and was told she wouldn't be going back to underwear until she stopped shitting herself. We put a package of wipes and a bunch of shopping bags int he bathroom. FDH showed her once how to get herself clean (previously we would just make her shower) and how to throw all the wipes in a shopping bag with the pull up, and to tie it off so it won't stink up the apartment. It's taken her at least 30-40 minutes to clean herself each time. Hopefully the fact that it takes forever and she's being left all alone will make her knock-it-off.
I'm just so over it. It's just so effing gross. I'm waiting for all of us to get pink-eye. :sick: