It only took 5 months but DONE!
We got our CO. Ex pays child support, half of braces, 50% of copays and deductiles until $200 then > 75% of all out of pocket medical expenses (i pay her health insurance so he pays for out of pocket stuff) 50% of child care expenses for all out of school time, 50% of after school fees till she goes to middle school. He is ordered to pay half her cheer fees (she has done competition cheer since she was 5) half of tumbling (since she was 3). He is ordered to pay half her private school. He pays half her car insurance when she turns 16. He pays half of college including dorm fees/books ect. They said no to grad school which is a bummer but we got everything else we asked for. I'm glad we did this. Its time he helped pay to take care of dd. The judge was not happy with him that he hadn't seen dd and that he didnt ask for any custody time. He also ordered back child support from the time we filied. His child support is $900 a month. I just wanted to go update my friends on here. Thanks for the advice and support.