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Planed by BM I'm sure- Still bugged about it!

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So last night me and my DH were out on the town having fun. When we went back to our room we had a voicemail on our home phone (the way I know is we get a text on our cell phones) so I call our house its from BM and its 12 min long! Oh shit what now is what me and my H thought! So I can hear BM and a couple of people talking so thought maybe she didn't mean to call- then I hear her say NO H name is remarried and stared talking about me and my DH. She then said yeah he put her before the girls and says its Biblical! She then says I would never put a man before my girls ever.

facebook posts by BM

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I'm sure I know what some of you are going to say and that's fine but like everyone here I just need to get this off my chest and I don't want my husband to have to hear it. So BM is in Vegas she posted on a friends facebook page can't wait to get on the plane and be out of this town for 3 days and forget about everything there. The way I see it your kids are there so that's kinda sad. Then on her friends husbands page she put ill rub your head for luck while in LAS Vegas!

I'm on his side not BM does he not know that?

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I understand the saying I can say something bad about someone in my family but no better else better or ill kill their ass. But this morning was not the right time- I told my H the same thing he told me word for word but I was wrong how the hell is that? So if it comes from your mouth its right but from mine its wrong? I told him I have gone though to much I'm not doing it with him. I said remember I'm on your side! When he does that I feel like he is teaming up with BM and I'm the bad guy! Grrrrr! He doesn't do it a lot or even often but when he does it cuts deep. What do I do?

Not a big deal at all........ But if the shoe was on the other foot!?!?!

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Wanting to see if its like this for any of you? Yesterday I HAD to text BM (thought e-mail BM does NOT have our cell numbers). Our home phone was going crazy on the caller ID it would not show us who called we couldn't couldn't get to our voicemail So at lunch when I checked I found all this was going on so I texted and ask. Well its been more then 12 hours and still nothing back from her. So we guess it wasn't her but the thing is if she would have texted my DH and he didn't answer she would send the same thing 20 times or more or even call and ask why are you not answering me.

BM is flipping out and Im loving it!!!!

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Well my DH kids called last night and so of course BM has to talk to him too!!! :? Please, then she tells him that next weekend she is going out of town and she is not going to take the girls. So if we want to call the girls they will be with her mom. Somehow it comes out that she is going to Las Vegas, crazy thing is we will be too! She is going for a wedding, us too! (Not the same weddings) She is mind set that we are going to run into one another and it going to mess up her weekend she was almost in tears last night! I LOVE IT!!!!!

Just want to cry....... Wait i did that lastnight!!!!

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I am just so stressed out I am sitting at work not be able to work cause the internet is down so it just give me time to sit here and think. I hate that my baby is at home/my moms house sick and I cant be there for him that's what a mom should do take away all the pain. The Dr appt out of town have become expensive and bills aren't getting paid on time we have 2 bills we are sill behind on. I am glad DH got this new job its more money so this is going to help!

Need to ask.... But also hate to worried of the answers I'll get back

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Just need to vent and ask how things are for others. BM does have primary of the skids 9 & 6 does she still have to tell my DH if she is going out of state with them? For a wedding in Las Vegas the kids are not in the wedding and its 14 hrs away? She is taking them out of school for 2 or 3 days and the oldest is already having a hard time in school not understanding, grades are not as good as they once were. What are your thoughts on this?

Halloween and Phone calls

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So as you all know yesterday was Halloween, my DH asked BM to send pics of the kids dressed up. We got them today and SD9 dressed as a witch (which is against what my DH likes and SD knows) any way back to the story and SD6 dressed as I have not idea the dress was way to big and her hair was in a ponytail on the top of her head with curls. The pic we got the 9 yr old has makeup on and has a look on her face that she is hot stuff! Which mad DH not so happy she's 9 she doesn't need to have make up like that on she looked like she was 20!

Bugged and don't know why!

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Here is the deal when anything changes with my DH or course we have to tell BM. My DH got a new job a week ago we sent a letter certified mail (2 weeks ago) like we had to she hadn't picked it up and tomorrow they would have sent it back to us. Well my DH had to e-mail BM to find out who the kids DR's were for his new ins with this job so now she goes and picks up the letter. I know that why we sent the letter that way she would know, but I hate that if we never would have had to ask her for anything she would have never gone to pick it up.

Grrrrrr!!!!!!!

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Don't know if my father in law will ever get it! I love my father in law but he keeps asking my DH why thing between him (my DH) and the kids have changed. My DH tells him my girls have lied about me, you, and my wife and they have NO respect for my wife. They have told my wife they dont like her never have and never will, they dont have to do what she says cause I'm not their mom. My father in law gave up his life to raise my DH when him and my DH mom got a divorce he has never remarried, dated or anything.

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