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Justone's picture

Just found out SS5 has to come back for even more days with us in January and DH has to do more pick ups and drop offs for one single day in between of break? Just let him have him for tje days in a row and then drop him off. Hes still paying the same amount of CM and having him more days. We have a newborn and i work from home. The child is bored and is extremely hyperactive. My DH doesnt get to come with me to baby's first vaccine tomoz because of SS. Everytime we try to talk he butts in and we just went to visit a friend his age so he could play and the whole time he demanded DH's attention and i didnt get a minute with DH. Need to get more food in for him and do more laundry eventhough BM ships him off to her parents 2 a week and barely cares for him. The kid constantly repeats himself and speaks at you. Im considering leaving due to my frustration. Need some serious advice. I love DH so much but i cant stand this. I dont want to be around SS anymore. His step dad even said he comes between them too and doesnt respect his mother. DH is great at disciplining and corrects behaviour but his hypera givity and clinginess is driving me nuts. I hate feeling like this coz hes a good kid but oh my how i dislike him. So sorry to sound so cruel. I feel horrible but i cant anymore i dont like him. I dont like his attitude and need to be the centre of everything and every fu*king conversation. Would be fine but he sleeps at 10pm dont even get a second.

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tog redux's picture

He sounds like he has ADHD, has he been evaluated? It's young for meds but professionals might help with parenting strategies. Also, why does he still pay as much if he has him more time? 

Justone's picture

Yes i have thought for ages that this may be the case. Im a teacher and have tried strategies with him but he gets distracted. Dont know why DH is paying the same. He gets verbal abuse from step dad if he doesnt.

tog redux's picture

Sounds like your DH has to firm up his spine. Does he have medical rights - can he take the boy to the doctor for an ADHD evaluation?