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SS13's Continued medical drama

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So, I called the pediatrician here to get the doctor notes for the Non-diagnosis of Ehlors-Danlos that were sent by the genetics clinic. The receptionist goes, "oh Mrs. DH, you called and had him transferred from this clinic... wait... what was your name again?" - I tell her - She says "Did you used to have a different last name?" - I say yes, and give it to her. Then she tells me she can't talk to me. 

@#$&*! BM

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At the beginning of the summer my kids got lice while on a family thing at their dad's from one of their cousins, we think. They were gone for a month. SM and Dad treated them, had them checked out, did all that they were supposed to do, etc. I went ahead a rewashed all bedding and vacuumed really good just in case. None of this was when SS was with us.

So anyway, SS13 gets home from his visit with us and about 2 hours later she is calling DH yelling at him that SS has lice. 

SS13's last day

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We have had a wonderful summer with SS13. We have done so many adventures the last 3 weeks. Seen great sites, spent a weekend in D.C. -- just wonderful. We also got the somewhat awesome news that SS doesn't have EDS (please see my previous blogs), even though BM convinced him that the doctors are wrong. We pray that he will realize that doctors are smarter than his mother when it comes to diagnosing- especially specialist for the syndrome. 

Strange and scary thought

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Those of you with Step sons who have a super controlling GUBM:

What are the chance do you think of them marrying a woman just like BM? After years of shitting on their own dad's, what is the chance they are going to go through the same heartbreak and it won't be until they loose their own children will they understand why their dad fought so hard? 

Selective Disengagement?

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I am finding myself more and more irritated at the toxicity that BM creates. SS has gone back to believing that he has Elhors-Danlos. BM and her GED self with her CNA credientials obviously knows more than the geneticist at the children's hosipital's EDS clinic. We were so silly to question her (eyeroll). But what are we going to do? Sure, we can go back to court. Sure, we will probably win something over it. SS will probably also hate us for it. BM has turned him.

BM is Unbelievable!

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We had to talk with SS for almost an hour trying to convince him that the Geneticist has more medical training than BM. That he is not sick. Had to keep saying things like "Remember how all 3 doctors told you that there was no blood work today, becasue there isn't a gene for Elhor-Danlos? So when your mom said you had a blood test when you were a baby, she must be mistaken on what you were tested for, because there is no blood test for this." -- "If you had this disease, you would not be able to play contact sports.

Waiting on the Lawyer now....

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So after yesterday's news we emailed our lawyer. It is the waiting game. This is the worst.

I also found out yesterday that when we were taking the family history that BM told SS the reason she "can't work" and is on the pain pump is because of his birth. He "hit her tailbone" and she has been in pain ever since. DH told the doctors that it wasn't really what happened.... DAMN! Not only does she convince him that he is sick but also blames him for her issues. MOTHER OF THE YEAR! 

Doctor update!

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Big surprise, SS does NOT have Elhirs-Danlos. We did take his phone and explained why we were going and why we didnt want him to call his mom until we were done. SS's 1/2 sister called about 4 times, BM called. We just didnt answer. 

After talking to doctors in the hallway we find out she called the clinic and demanded he not be seen. They told her that dad has rights and they will see SS. She must have used a gps tracker. That was the only way to know we were at that children's hospital. That is the level of crazy we are dealing with. 

Loaded with anxiety today!

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SS arrives tomorrow for a little over 3 weeks. He is a good kid, he and my son are like 2 peas in a pod and get along together so well! The boys fight with my daughter- like siblings do... That isn't really my issue. I guess knowing that once we take him to the geneticist BM is going to lose her mind. She was such a ranting and raving B when we took him for a physical over spring break. I just know that after this visit all of the calm will be over. We will be back in court. We still owe the lawyer $5k from the last go 'round. 

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