Some of you know that I had a very short 2nd marriage before DH. We met, married in 6 months and the marriage was over in 11 months. He was abusive and his son was the literal spawn of Satan.. His father being actual Satan.
When I left I moved about 35 mins away to the town I grew up in and family lives in. He stayed in that house. ExH2's mom lives not far from us, but I haven't even run into her at a store or anything. However, since she is on more of a main road that I drive on often I have noticed exH2's trucks there.
Before school started I called the guidance office to tell them to make sure that BS15 and exSS15 were not in any classes together because if they lived with exMIL, exSS would go to BS's school. I knew they wouldn't be in any core classes but maybe gym or something. ExSS was... slow... and violent. I am talking tried to throw a chair through the window in Kindergarten.
Anyway, I was praying that he would have moved out or something... but BS just texted and told me he just saw him. I told him to stay away and I didn't want him or his father anywhere near BS. ExSS used to torment BS.
BS keeps insisting that exSS is fine, totally chilled out. I am just not ok! I managed to keep us from them for years! We left 9 years ago and I haven't had to face them. I am freaking out and want to go grab my son right now and homeschool or something. Talk me down ladies. I am so close to a panic attack.