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Before court musings

justmakingthebest's picture

BM's friend that feeds us info contacted me again last night. Apparently BM is going to have SS get on the stand to say he is scared of his father and that is why he hasn't come out the last 3 times. (For those who don't know we are out of state so this is over the last year)

Anyway, I texted our attorney and he said that if he did that it would be laughable. We have a photo album with over 1,000 pictures of him at our house as happy as can be. He has never expressed fear to the GAL or the judge durring any of thier talks. 

Then I got to thinking and looked back on messages between BM and DH. A little over 2 months ago BM told DH that SS didn't want to come out to see us for spring break this year because he has a life there with a girlfriend and a job and sports. -- BOOM! So now I am hoping the judge will see that she even convinces her kid to lie to get her out of trouble. He isn't scared of his dad. He may be embaressed by his behavior towards him and is scared of having to actually face the man he has been an asshole to, but he isn't actually fearful of his father. 

Also, apparently BM is going to ask the judge to recuse himself if she doesn't win during this contempt hearing- I can't believe it. She ACTUALLY thinks that the judge is biased towards us. After all that we have lost, after all that we have been through, she thinks the judge is biased to us. I don't even know what kind of personality disorder this woman  has,  but clearly it is BAD!

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thinkthrice's picture

the same script!   "Judge needs to recuse himself"  GUBM:  "things aren't going my way like they always do and should always do."

HowLongIsForever's picture

Of course she does.  How else is she going to continue being the helpless victim if the judge hasn't crossed over to the dark side with your DH?

She's such a terrible human being.  I hope the weight of her life choices destroys her one day, even if she doesn't recognize them for what they are. 

WalkOnBy's picture

Medusa tried that "you're in cahoots with Awesome Attorney and my ex-DH" crap, too.  As I am sure you'll recall, she also threw in "and the parenting coordinator is biased against me and hates me because THEY told her to" just for fun.

These broads are all the same.  Asshats, every single one.

advice.only2's picture

I really am rooting for you guys to get some sort of win out of this, I am so jaded by family court that all I can think is you will have this continued for some reason or another because of BM.

tog redux's picture

We got "the court system has failed SS" because they didn't cut DH out of his life. Borderline women think they are being abused if they don't get what they want. 

justmakingthebest's picture

That is her to a T!!! She cried abuse on her 2 relationships before DH. She never accused him, but she knows that if those claims go around the military will take action and she will lose her paycheck.