Restraining order clearly states she may not contact me NOR my family as related by blood or marriage.

Apparently BM's job found out she was arrested. Apparently they told her if she was found anything but innocent her job would be forfeit due to the morality clause she signed when she was hired.

Sorry, I have to recover from laughing at the thought that this woman signed a morality clause, or that any idiot offered her one. She goes through men faster than an allergists waiting room goes through Kleenex.

I was told she was offered an Alford Plea (basically pleads not guilty but admits they have enough evidence to convict) and she would get probation.

So, BM started calling DH and cussing him out. He sent her to voice mail, 7 voice mails of 'you better get your bitch under control' and 'if I lose my job due to that cunt I will beat her ass' and several other threats.

DH called the cops. They were listening to the voice mails on his phone when she called an 8th time. The deputy answered it. She did not even notice it was not DH's voice on the other end of the phone. Deputy took notes during the call, apparently she threatened DH once, me three times and threatened to steal the kids and run.

Deputy hung up on her and was headed for her house for breaking the restraining order and using an electronic device to intimidate/ cohearse/ extort. This is the 4th time we have called the cops for her breaking the Restraining order, first time she was dumb enough to leave messages so there was proof.

Enjoy your jumpsuit BM!