I just need to vent, this is the 3rd weekend in a row the skids will be here. Cuntzilla has NOT spent a weekend with her kids since May. They were either with us or So Mom; SO Mom hurt herself a few weeks ago and won’t watch the skids so guess who gets stuck with them US. She asked for a favor to watch them last weekend even though it wasn’t our weekend and SO says yes. This pisses me off because she NEVER does favors for us. We are always taking on extra weekends, picking them up early or dropping them off late.

No I am not talking about Issac. Hurricane Cuntzilla, just thinking it's been quiet on this end, haven't heard from "it" in a few days this coming weekend is ours so I am just waiting for the storm of texts and other assorted non sense to come our way. In my mind this is how it should go.

CZ: what time are you picking up the kids
SO: when I get out of work around (insert time)
CZ: K

But no it will be a hurricane of BS and non sense!!

Calm before the storm!!

So the post the other day about the nose piercing got me thinking about how much say as a step parent do you have in the things your step kids do. I am not talking about the step parents that have their skids FT or even 50/50 or the ones with absent BMs weather they are deceased or in jail or other circumstances. I am talking about your standard EOW a day or 2 during the week visitation, with BMs being the CP weather they are useless or not.

So I need a woman’s opinion on this. I have said in my previous blogs BM seems to ALWAYS have some kind of childcare issues. She used to have a sitter come after school to watch the kids but she quit. I can only assume by what she has told BF is that they didn’t listen to her and were not well behaved. Her parents never seem to help out with childcare either, for what I assume are the same reasons. Well for the last month or so we have been hearing a mans name mentioned a lot from the boys. SO doesn’t care who BM dates or even if he is around the kids.