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SO and I went to YSS football game last night. He did AWESOME, scored the winning TD and the ONLY TD. I LOVE LOVE LOVE football so any good game gets me excited. Anyway OSS pretty much ignored SO and I. I personally could care less, but I felt bad for SO. YSS said hi to Dad not so much me and again I'm not bothered while YSS is not as bad as OSS there has been some brain washing with both boys so I expect the weirdness when BM is around. It's good YSS and I are as right as rain when he is with us.

How long after the skids go home does it take you to shake the SKID ICK!

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If you read my blog from yesterday I was all fired up. SO spoke last night about the issues with OSS and fucking face time lol. I am still just GRRRR. Feeling icky already dreading the next visit in 2 weeks, trying to mentally prepare myself for it. What I want to do is focus on the upcoming weekend with no skids. Just my bios and SO. Plan date night look forward to OUR free time. Yet here I am its Tuesday and I can’t shake the ICK.

I HATE FACETIME!!! ANd all things BM and OSS. WARNING this is long and contains offensive language!

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Good Moring ladies, it’s been awhile. I am trying very hard to just stay out of things that are not my concern, not disengaged but not totally there either. So I haven’t had much to vent about. I still lurk and comment here and there, but this weekend has gotten me to a place I need STALK.

Older SS9 is ALL his mother, he is bratty, self entitled, anti social, whiney, wimpy and glued to his ipad. And with the ipad comes face time. I f*&King hate face time. This might get long winded so I am going to outline with bullets my complaints with FACETIMING MOMMMMYYYYY! and OSS!

Days like today make me rethink this relationship.

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It is always something with BM. I posted a blog about the xmas party. On Monday she calls SO because SS jumped off a chair and hurt his ankel and she wasn't sending him to school. OK UMMMM where were you when these boys were screwing around like this. SO punches out loses 2 hours pay to pick up ss and bring him to his Moms house. When he gets there ss is running around playing like nothingis wrong. Obviously he wasn't hurt that bad, but she keeps these kids home for everything. Anyway she tell SO to make a Dr appointment, SO says NO I have to go back to work.

Xmas Party! Feeling really bitter towards SO, Skids, BM just about everyone!!!

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Let me explain. The bar SO and I go to when we go out is having their Christmas party in a couple of weeks. We go every year, its fun we get to see friends we don’t see often, free buffet and the food is amazing. Well this year the party falls on a skid weekend. SO is determined to go. I on the other hand rather just call it a night. Here are our options to go; I don’t like any of them. 1) We can ask SO’s Mom to watch them, I really rather not for the following reasons.

Just for fun I posted this to FB

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Well IT'S OFFICIAL!!!!! I have some AMAZING but at the same time SHOCKING news! I'm EXPECTING!!!!! A little over 7 weeks and counting! I know, I'm shocked too. I can hardly believe it myself. I wasn't going to post it on Facebook but since you alll are my family and friends, I wanted to make it official. I'm too overwhelmed to keep it a secret!!! Who would have guessed that I would be expecting!!

I am expecting Santa in just over 7 weeks! Repost if you have a sense of humor. Lets see how many people read the whole status.

New Jersey/ North East Coast SM How is everyone?

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It has been a while, between power being out and random internet service I just wanted to check in and see how everyone is doing. We are hanging in, not much damage where I am, we never lost power no damage to our house. Trying to get gas is insane, other then that all is good. How is everyone else holing up? I hope everyone is safe! On a funny not wishing Sandy would have swept up all these crazy BM's lol

William and Harry due to arrive at 3pm

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YUP the 2 princess :sick: will be here for the weekend!! SO acts like this placee is the royal palace. He goes all anal in making sure everything is just perfect so the princes can wreck it in 30 seconds. Then the stellar parenting he projects is just awesome, he bribes the princes to behave, this week it is the movies, if they are good he will take them to the movies. Ok I believe in rewarding good behaviour BUT I do not agree on bribing kids to be good.

Why do we have to lie and sneak around GRRR!

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So this weekend is my bday. We have a wedding to go to on Saturday night and SO's Mom is taking us out to eat for my Bday Friday night. BM texts SO and ask if we can watch the boys Friday night (we just had them last weekend) it is the only night she can get out with her married boyfriend. NOT MY FUCKING PROBLEM. SO lies and says I can't I am doing a side job. I do not want her to know what are plans are, but he should have said no, I plan my weekends around the visitation rotation I have a life too. But NO he FUCKING LIES!!

7 YO not doing his homework. Who's fault is it?

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Not the 7 year olds. This is the 3rd day my SO has gotten a call from school about his son not paying attention in class, not behaving, talking when he shouldn't be and now not doing homework. He had NO school yesterday so he had 2 nights to do this homework, is it his fault NO! he is 7 his mother the CP should be the one making sure the homework is done, not to mention HW assignment are suppose to be signed. There is no excuse, his HW for the week is on the schools website, all she needs to do is LOOK. Ok if my 15yo didn't do his homework I would blame him.

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