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Amputee Turkey – A Play Out of the HCGU-BM’s PAS Handbook
Lillywy00 Wrote:
I'd rather be involved behind the scenes because these jealous breeders raise hell simply seeing the new wife's name on anything, so as long as they think everything is the dad's idea, then it's smoother sailing.
https://www.steptalk.org/blog/wineoclock/should-step-parents-be-included...
Update: Medium Chill
I successfully did the ‘Medium Chill’ at dinner tonight. Medium Chill is A technique used to disengage oneself from another person's drama when direct contact is unavoidable.
Medium Chill is disengaging emotionally and giving neutral responses to what someone does or says. The focus is on you, your feelings and needs, not the other person or their feelings and needs.
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This Generation of Skids are...
My husband and I have radical views on raising kids. I believe kids should, from an early age, learn how to value and take care of their possessions, learn life skills such as cleaning and cooking, and be as independent as possible. But my values will never express themselves in this household. My DH and I came from diverse backgrounds. From what I’ve observed DH’s values are: skids don’t have to learn how to cook, or clean or take care of their possessions – someone else will do it all for them.
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Venting - I see a pattern here!
A single data point = nothing,
two data points define a line,
three data points = a plane, and so on….
there’s a pattern here.
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Using the Surrender Tactic to Avoid Unnecessary Conflict – Have you used it?
My DH has an entitled ex-wife. Although they both are two grown-ass adults who had the child custody orders read to them by two lawyers, and they both consensually agreed on what was written in that court document, hence they signed on the dotted line – apparently – that wasn’t good enough to the ex-wife – she wants more, more and more.
Living in a nest of Hoarders
I attempted to get this man to clean up his house for FIVE years! No, the live-in maid had to do it all by herself while contending with him, fighting tooth and claw to resist her efforts at erasing the ex-wife’s existence and sending to Goodwill the long-ago discarded, unused toys, baby clothes, pre-teen, and teen paraphernalia, etc. from this damned house.
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