Liar's advanced class
You all have heard about my SD59 who has been such a trial to me with her mini -wife antics, lying, drug use and theft. Im disengaged from her and have all my defenses up but still.....
Last month, she started telliing DH about a man she had met, introduced at a dinner party by a neighbor. Around her age, nice apoearance, employed, sincere and best of all, generous. He bought her a DVD player and a car battery and was attentive. DH was in raptures, heard wedding bells and had visions of the white knight riding in. I was glad that at Thanksgiving, she had somebody and that DH had his dreams.
A few weeks ago, she was telling me how great everything was going, how he admired her family focus, how he asked to meet her gkids, all was rosy. He had talked to SD's daughter and pledged to treat her right. He had even had SD talk to his ex who spoke glowingly of him, how he praised SD, what a great dad he had been. SD responded by promising never to be a troublesome girlfriend and vowed to always be available to help ex, like if she needed a ride to the hospital. Kumbaya.
SD called DH today and he asked about bf. It's all over. Boyfriend's daughter called and asked, why are you seeing my dad, he and mom are still married. MIL lives in the basement and 2 unemployed daughters live with mom and dad. SD responded righteously that she'd never dated a married man in her life. I was hearing all this because DH was speaking to her next to me and her voice carries. She was starting to elaborate when he said, thats enough and hung up.
So that whole story about talking to the wife was a complete fabrication. Come to think of it, the neighbor's intro was, too. So was the daughter's call. I'm guessing it was an internet hookup that didn't work out,.
I really don't know how she comes up with all this stuff or how she keeps her stories straight. Just venting here.