HELP!!!
Just posing a question to anyone who might have a viewpoint.
Do you think its healthy for my live in boyfriend to receive 3-7 calls per day from his ex wife???
His kids are pretty healthy, no real concerns. He has his two little boys 3 and 4 while she has the 6 and 7 year old. Also she has a daughter that is not his but he raised that is part of the situation.
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No. If they need to talk so
No. If they need to talk so much, they should have stayed together.
Normal if they're still
Normal if they're still sleeping together. Otherwise, not so much.
Oh Heck NO! Are you
Oh Heck NO! Are you kidding?? I don't call my husband 3-7 times a day. Put a stop to this now.
No freaken way!!!
No freaken way!!!
Hell No We even put a block
Hell No
We even put a block on Hubbys cell phone to stop un- nessessary
calls, harrasment, bitch sessions,calls at WORK,, etc... she used that phone like she was still in charge and married to him... she has every right to call our house phone but that crap had to stop. she was pissed but got the point,,
No. We see BM about 1 or 2x a
No. We see BM about 1 or 2x a wk. My DH talks to her about 1x every six months.
She is to go dependent on your DH. He needs to let her know she needs to get herself together, learn to make some basic decisions on her own.
Ummmm NO..NO and NO...Who do
Ummmm NO..NO and NO...Who do you call 7 times a day...let me guess NO ONE... This needs to stop now...
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That happened when DH and I
That happened when DH and I first started dating. Lasted about a year. No matter how many times he would tell her only to call for an emergency and that she calls WAY too much, she still did it. He stopped answering her calls. Then she started texting... he ignores them. Now she only calls when she really needs something. Which is about once every 3 or 4 months.
Oh, Jendengirl, I know
Oh, Jendengirl, I know exactly what you are going through. My SO's ex calls at least that many times also, whether or not the kids are with him. He generally won't pick up the phone, but she will literally call anywhere from 1-10 times in a row if no one picks up. Oh, and she lives in the same neighborhood, so sometimes she'll come to the door. I have expressed to SO how much this upsets me and how he needs to establish better boundaries. The thing is, she's super scary crazy, so he tries to humor her so that she doesn't retaliate in some way. Knowing how crazy she is, and having been her victim several times, this made some sense to me at first. Now that I've lived it for over 1 1/2 years something has got to change. Right now it's just one of the smaller nails in the coffin of our declining relationship.