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Looks like it won't be 50/50 for awhile

Jcksjj's picture

After DH was being an *** to me on the 2 days I did help SD with her homeschooling, I messaged BM about her having SD on all the homeschool days. She agreed to it. Right now the kids are doing half in school and half at home. And with Covid rates going up in our county against, it looks like it will stay that way for awhile. So with BM taking SD on the homeschool days on our week, we only have her after school Thursday to Monday morning every other week. 

When I told DH I had already arranged with BM to have her all the homeschool days (I didn't even ask him first, I'm not watching his kid if he's going to be a jerk), he just said okay in a dopey voice and I could see his tail between his legs, knowing he screwed up. 

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Simpleton21's picture

Hell yes!  Good for you!  It is her mother and her father's job...not yours! They can both piss off!

Jcksjj's picture

I agree. And you know, if they both were nicer I'd be fine with doing it. But when I do stuff to help and instead of getting a thanks I get treated like the enemy and accused of stealing her birthday card (idk if you saw that post, but that's what triggered this) I'm not doing anything for them. Idk what kind of screws you have to have loose to be thinking more about a stupid birthday card for your kid then their schoolwork anyway.

Simpleton21's picture

What?!?! No I didn't see that blog. I will have to look for it!  WTF?!?! These parents need to get their priorities straight.  I completely understand that you would be willing to do more if it was appreciated but it never is.  They just take take take and expect you to cater to their brat and deal with no appreciation and instead stupid accusations of you towards the child.  Ridiculous!

tog redux's picture

Good for you! She should be with her mother if DH can't be the one helping her. Not your job.

Harry's picture

You are not the babysitter because you are at home.  Either he stays at home with DD to do teaching with her, or he make arrangements for her school work and pay for it.  BM is doing it for free. Win,win 

Exjuliemccoy's picture

Well done! You're looking sexy with that whip and those tall black bi!ch boots!