"I dont remember that"
This was probably like a month ago, but a comment I just read reminded me of it. DH and I were talking and it got brought up why I hate/am uncomfortable going places in public with SD - especially restaurants where there's nothing to do but sit there. The last time I went out to eat with SD was her bday last summer. There was quite a few annoying things that I blogged about regarding, but one was how weird/inappropriately suggestive SD was acting toward DH to try to keep the attention on her. Acting just like BM does with her guy "friends" basically. Reaching across the table to slowly stroke his forearms while staring into his eyes, etc. Interrupting anytime anyone was talking to say coyly say "i love you daddy." DH was clearly freaked out and told her to stop.
So when this got brought up, DH had no memory of it. I asked him how he could possibly not remember that. He said he didnt know and he tended to block out when his mom does weird (narcissistic) things too. I know denial is a real thing, but idk if I buy that he really doesn't remember things or is just BSing because he doesn't want to acknowledge them or admit it happened and have to deal with it.