SD was gone for 10 days. It was amazing. The weather was crap, all 3 kids and then myself all got sick, and it was still amazing.
So anyway, alot of the issues that were happening when I first posted have gotten better. To be clear, SD herself is the same, but much less of a problem to me personally because of the advice I've gotten on here and it actually working over time. DH has gotten much better. Hes not 100 percent, but it's gotten better.
So my question now is how do I get all of the crap out of my head. Dealing with the drama with SD, BM and MIL on such a constant basis before took up alot of headspace, and now it's like its stuck that way (probably what the narcissists are going for). I'd like that space back for more positive things. How do I let go of the past crap and the things that are pretty much stuck the way they are?