1.) DH was abusive.

2.) DH abandoned her and the kids.

3.) DH was an absent father and she was a "poor single mother with no support".

4.) DH didn't make time for her while they were married and cared more about his career.

I'm sure there is more. Reality is that DH was in the military so that dictated a lot of his youth, he had a mental breakdown after they separated because of how and when it happened so he went dark for six months, and he could never get ahead enough to ever have more custody because all his money went to paying for ET's rent, car, food, etc in addition to CS. The DV claims are straight-up lies, though she liked throwing things at DH and hitting him upside the head when he "did something dumb".

Cause: DH wasn't there enought because of shift work and overtime (which she also uses as an excuse for why she habitually cheated - she needed a maaaaaaaan!!!).

Now: I'm the Barren B!tch whose trying to steal her family.

BioHo can suck rocks. Likely one of the only things she HASN'T sucked...

DH is a lazy, mean, abusive, lying, bully.

LOLOLOL

Oppositeville.

Mealticket dumped Satan recently.  I'm sure he's now on the receiving end of the same.  He who looks but does not see.  Derp.  

LOLOLOL

ETA: Oh, also, DH is a GOLD DIGGER.  You know, because Satan was so rich living on Victim0's largesse when he met her.  And also, I'm a gold digger too.  I got into the relationship with DH initially because I wanted to get my hands on the nic-nacs she still had stored at his house.  Now that we're separated, I'm waiting until we've been married 10 years to file for divorce, so I can get my hands on his SSI.

LOLOLOL

Me and BM have an acquaintance of mine in common, a while ago I found out when BM house sat for her family she stole $500 of her Childs money out of her bedroom. She then told me how BM would always complain how broke she was because my DH was such a scum and never paid her any child support. 

Reality - he's paid child support for 7 years now and I think ONCE has been one day late cause he simply forgot. 

Tells everyone who will listen including skids at a very young age) 

Myth:  Chef is a deadbeat (she never gets CS and she pays for everything) eyeroll...Fact:  Chef has not missed a CS payment for 17 yrs and counting. 

Myth:  Chef was abusive.  Fact: when they broke up, the Gir physically attacked Chef and he did not defend himself

Myth:  Chef never helped with the skids.  Fact:  Gir was a "SAHDN" mom.  Chef often cooked, cleaned while holding down 2 jobs to support her ass.

Myth:  Chef left her "high and dry" when they broke up.  Fact:  Chef was paying ALL of his salary for several months to her direct deposit which she promptly spent AND drained all the skids college accounts before the ink was dry on the divorce papers.

Sorry for the dripping sarcasm. I have friends that have heard a great many things so this is how it goes with Toxic Troll and her re-writing of history:

1. Why the marriage with kids exploded:

- DH was jealous and angry all the time. He was emotionally abusive and would text her that she is a slut because she wore makeup to work. He was controlling.

This caused her to want to meet other men online and get d!ck pics from them and text them while taking long baths and then brag and laugh about it with her friends (who were his friends wives!) Things all came out when Toxic Troll accused one of his friends of grabbing her cootchie. And then her friend outted her. He moved her out on his own dime. She kept insisting she wanted to stay married to him and he created a fake profile, she made hookup plans with this fake profile and then was very shocked when he stood on her doorstep saying "your expecting someone else?????" lolololol.

2. What Toxic Troll thinks of the step situation:

- Dh is being controlled by me, like he used to control her. Dh is p-whipped by me. I am evil step mother who abuses kids. I am raging alcoholic (really Toxic troll? your kids found you in a puddle of your own puke and you would go through bottles of vodka while being a stay at home do nothing with kiddos running around in dirty diapers.) I am horrible. I am stupid. I am lazy. I am mean. DH regularly "chooses his girflriend/live in/now wife over his chhhhhiiiiiiillllldddddrrrreeeennnnnnn (Sd22)

SD14, hates me, who I helped get out of f zone in school went to zoom meetings with teachers, emailed admin officials etc while Toxic Troll did none of these things...but sd14 who hates me asked me to help her.

Theres a lot more but this is just getting me more and more angry. 7 years in will  do that to a person.

DH went to college free because she worked there and then left her (true, but she forgets the part that she had an affair).

He was abusive and abandoned her and SS. She did everything she could to work with him, but he wouldn't co-parent with her. He alienated SS himself by being a harsh and cruel parent.  

She did once tell SS that DH was using me for a few specific reasons, not sure if she still thinks that since we've been together 11 years now. 

I think the poor me playbook gets handed out by divorce lawyers or something.

1. Dh was abusive and has anger problems 

2. Dh planted drugs on her 

3. Dh found another woman and left her and the kids (we hadn't even met at the time until months after he had his own place which took a few months for him to get)

4. After Dh found out her older child wasn't his because she was raped 3 years prior he abandoned this child and wanted nothing to do with her 

5. She is a poor single mom with no support and an ex husband who doesn't care about SD 

Probably makes herself out to be even more of a victim then I stated above. That woman cannot tell the truth or take any responsibility for her actions if her life depended on it 

it is so sad how many of these BM's claim both their ex abused them and that their ex abandoned the children when it is so far from the truth. There are people who get abused by their spouse hands down, but when you haven't and you take the easy route to get sympathy instantly is disgusting. I have not done research on this, but I have been in an abusive relationship myself and read about others on here who have been too, the abused typically does not want to leave their victim/end that relationship. Usually the abuser does anything and everything they can do for their SO to not leave them so if the marriage ended because the ex spouse filed and the ex spouse used to abuse them, that doesn't add up. Anyone can correct me if I am wrong. 

Well,  I have personally seen posts on BM's facebook where she toots her own horn because "after getting divorced (not my choice).. that I raised my two lovely girls on my own"

So.. yep.. she was left as a poor single mother through no fault of her own. (newsflash.. there were plenty of reasons why.. and my DH and his parents and I all did a LOT to help raise those kids).

The thing is that if she were to have to say anything about ME publicly.. she would probably say nice things because she would want it to seem like she was being so generous to speak kindly of her Exes new wife.  

From what I have seen Meth Mouth spew on FakeBook she alleges DH cheated on her, was emotionally abusive and is a liar.  She also likes to post inspirational quotes pertaining to being the "underdog" and  that she's a "fierce mama bear"  of course all these things are shared and loved by Spawn.

Reality is I think the only people who believe Meth Mouth's delusions are her, Spawn and GrandHag.  More often than not if/when people have asked us what happened to Meth Mouth we are honest and tell them she is an addict.   They usually then have some story to tell us about her which we just nod and go uh-huh then move on.  

Bio Ho told every swing dick that DH was:

1. Abusive. (He was never abusive, Bio Ho would scream, throw things at him)

2. He was never home. (No Sh*t Sherlock, he was a long haul trucker, gone 3 to 5 days a week)

3. He was an alcoholic. (Nope, maybe a beer or 3, but not an alcoholic. Bio Ho, if there was alcohol in the house or any RX's she would take it all.)

4. DH was stagnant and never going anywhere in life. (Ha, Bio Ho told DAH that she wanted someone that could give her a house with double doors. Kiss off Bio Ho, my house has the double doors)

BM 1 deserted DH leaving him with 3 teenage children when he had a breakdown. I don't think she makes any rude remarks about DH and is still amicable.

BM2 on the other hand blames DH for leaving her.( She was abusive)  Tells everyone she had to bring the children up on her own. Didn't receive support and goodness knows what else. Her friends turn their backs on us when they see us so she must have made up some doozy stories.

For some unknown reason (that I still struggle to comprehend) BM talked to me about her cheating on SO, with who, how she felt.. blah blah. I was "cool" with her then but, still shocked that she was telling me this info. I just sat there and nodded. Bizarre. What she tells to strangers who knows but, I don't think she ever bashes SO. Everyone knows HE takes care of the skids.

Now when it comes to me.. ha I'm sure that couldn't be further from the truth what she says. I'm the reason she doesn't see her kids, I stole her kids (that SHE left TWICE) I "changed" SO I'm sure is a big one because when she is in an attention seeking phase it's always "youuuu usssedd to be differentttt!!" So many haha.    

Mum bs and my husband was so horrible to divorce her and went all out for revenge and wanted 50% of everything even his retirement savings despite doing everything to sabotage his career. Life must be great for her to know judge ordered she was no eligibe for those retirement savings and then 10 yrs later hubby withdrew a large chunk of that to buy a home in my birth country in my name.

after a while bio mums friends bought her bullshit story and her own family too, till they found out when bio mums mother died, bio mum before hand had convinced her to change all ownership of assets and bank accts into bio mums name so nothing went to any of the siblings and since they see sd's as attached to bio mum and benefitting off the money, they hate sd's too. The friends eventually got tired of the poor pity me card bs

BM knows her kids are disgusting since she had three boyfriends move out because of her kids behaviors. BM simply doesn't like DH. But since she always has to be the good guy she would definitely paint a bad picture of DH.