So my DH just got about 2k in the mail of medical bills he owe on his kids. He pays about $700 a month in insurance for his kids that his ex and her husband are on. They have another kid so they split the extra 5/1 ways. So BM IS just about to have another baby and must have took them all the doctor (probably because of neglect) and racked up thousands of dollars that he has to pay 75% off. I think she did it because she's about to have YET another baby and it would basically be free now that he paid all of the deductible.
What is wrong with people?
The SKIDS came over this weekend. It was a disaster...yet again. again, I am taking one post at a time.
This time the issue is PRIVACY. My husband has 5 children (9 yrs old and under) who are all born within 5 years with the youngest two being twins that are 5.
I tend to try to at least "hide out" in my room because the children are feral. They CONSTANTLY ask me where there dad is. Which is fine, except its in rotation...which 5 of them. I finally decided to just stop responding.
I don't know why but skids BM always sends them here with clothes.. they the clothes are raggity and small for their size. He pays her 3k in child support and medical premium and 75% medical bills...bm takes them on trips...is remarried.... I guess if it was me I wouldn't send clothes like that but then I have decided that maybe she is doing it on purpose so that they look poor and raggity when we have them? I'm tired to buying all of them clothes all of the time.
I make less than half my husband's income (40k vs 92k). He pays 35k a year in support (not including thousands extra in medical bills he pays 75%).
How should we split finances? Right now we are only splitting housing. Been married 3 years. I'm starting to feel like he should be contributing more.
My partner gave me flowers for mom dad and had my son who lives with us give them to me. Cute. But then throughout the rest of the day, he had nothing planned. My son wanted to go hiking so we headed to do that but hadn't had lunch yet. I asked where we are going to eat... he said whatever. Everything is still closed so I get we can go out somewhere fancy and sit down. I suggested maybe we go to grocery store and get food for a picnic. He didn't want to do that we just went to Wendy's.