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i am an occasional partaker, okay, i like it more than occasionally! BUT i also do not advertise it, wear hemp or tye dyes, or 'promote' marijuana use at all. yes, many many people do smoke, but i think when you have children, espeically live-in children, you should make better decisions than your bm. i do not have bio-kids yet and i do think that i will 'grow up' and basically not need/want to smoke anymore. it's a relaxation thing for me though. as for the myspace thing. wow. i am a myspacer and i have had past drama with bb via myspace as well. if she were to do this to me, i would probably contact my ex to tell him 'please just de-friend her.' seriously. what is the point? bb was checking out my sister's page and printing off copies (!!!!) to bring to court randomly so i had to ask all my friends and relatives to mark their pages private. now bb and i both have private pages so it's not a big deal. but when she could view my page, she would look at it 1500 times a day, no joke. but for you, i would either ask your ex to do this or tell bb you think this is sorta strange...because it is!!!!! psycho?????
good luck.

You are funny

I truely DO not care if she chooses to smoke- HOWEVER, she has 4 nights a week that she has NO kids... can't she do it then??????? I was very sheltered growing up so when I found out that she was a regular user, I was mortified. She smokes EVERYDAY. Before work, at lunch all of the time. DH has informed me that it is more common than my mom led me to believe, so I have chilled out on that battle... but I am talking- almost every entry on her page was someone talking about POT. This is how she is KNOWN in this town, as a POT HEAD. In fact when my ex's girlfriend found out who BM was her first comment was "I saw her a few months ago, she was SOOO high". That is what I meant by "grow up". I just think when you hit a certain age, and have kids and all of that "adult stuff" that we do, you would stop making that your priority and I don't know maybe MAKE YOUR KIDS and YOUR JOB your priority.... call me crazy.

As far as my EX and MYSPACE- He will probably never even talk to her. He knows her story, and knows she is a "psycho" his exact words were "I was afraid if I declined her it would somehow cause drama for you and DH, so I just accepted her and ignored her email". Come on visiting your page 1500 times... that is insane! I have no desire to be so wrapped up in someone elses life. I was guilty of checking out her page when she said she was being harrassed. I wanted to see what her idea of harrassed was... but I was so upset with all of the crap about getting high, that I never went back because it was making me angry. I did tell BM that I thought it was strange that she requested him. She said "why did he feel the need to "tell you". I just told her that I was not sure why (when really I know that he still repects me enough to tell me something like this. because it IS strange). And I left it at that. I appreciate your insight, I really am not a "stick in the mud", just raised by a bible beater and in some ways I LOVE HER FOR IT! Maybe I will regret not asking him to defriend her... I just think MYSPACE is an evil place... again, niave I know.

Daddys Gurl-

Life is as sweet as you sweeten it.

If there is no dirt, dust it off....

NCP should have rights too!
Sounds to me like your ex is already aware of the type of woman that bm is and that you and your ex have an open line of communication, with that being said, dust it off..dont stress her attempts at stepping over the line and trying to befriend him. As for the pot smoking...if its her thing, let that be too. I agree that there is a time to grow up, and unfortunatly its not the pot smoking area she needs to grow up in....its the bragging about it. I have known people who carry on in their daily lives and chose smoking as a form of relaxation, like another chooses a couple or more drinks. However, those people didnt feel the need to brag about that...for that matter, with most you would never even know they smoked at all by their careers and lifestyles.It isnt that they tried to hide it, they just didnt feel the need to put it out there for the world. I agree that she should be mature enough to limit her high times to when her son is not home...as she seems to want the world to know what she is doing, she is endangering herself and her child by doing it in her home, remember, marijuana IS STILL ILLEGAL, and depending on the quanities she has in her home,and the people she has in her home that she is buying and smoking with, she could be putting her son and her own saftey at risk as well as the legal ramifications from a possible bust.(As this is something she has exposed to the world, it could be used by anyone who has issues or a grudge agiants her.)Personally, if it bothers you at all, I would speak to her or have dh speak with her about the position her BRAGGING is placing her and their son in... just my 2 cents worth.........

It's like you are reading my mind!

Really the BRAGGING and the fact that she continues to part take while SS is with her are the only issues I have with her choice of extra ciricular activites. I have had several conversations with her about this, she continues to tell me that she is in complete control when she is high and that it is not a big deal. DH has had MORE HEATED conversations with her about it to the point that he has made threats. Like when she is high when we go to drop him off and he refused to leave him there with her. It has not stopped anything other than her TIMING of when she smokes. Whatever. She puts SS in a potentially bad situation and that is what bothers me. I am glad someone else sees it from my point of view. You make me feel NOT SO crazy.

MySpace... I have come to the conclusion that I have NOSPACE of my own left anyways, nothing to hide so I am going to let it go. If she feels the need to toture herself and be that involved in my life, watching me and her ex husband live out "her dreams" as she has told me so many times in the past... than that is her issue... not mine. : )