OT - stimulus check for child support arrears
This is off topic, but I know some of us here in addition to being SM's also have biochildren from a previous relationship.
HCBD in my case owes $17,000 in arrears when he decided to just stop paying child support for three years and take expensive vacations every month with his wife instead (lol - I know it's ridiculous... a whoooole other story).
The way I understood it, for someone who has an enormous amount of child support arrears, such as HCBD, his stimulus check of $1200 was supposed to be sent to me, through my state child support office as a way to help him pay down some of his arrears.
...but this has not happened.
I have not received the $1200 through child support from HCBD's stimulus pay.
Has anyone else experienced either NOT receiving your DH's stimulus check because he owes a large amount of arrears in child support, or have you experienced receiving the check that was supposed to go to the other parent but instead came to you to help pay down arrears you are owed?
Nothing at all has happened here, and I hesitate to ask HCBD if he received his own stimulus check, because starting any kind of conversation with him is like opening Pandora's box.