BM has been Facebook messaging me for the past couple of weeks in what I can only assume is an attempt to bond...I respond only because I am stupid and seem to still think I am responsible for keeping the peace...and everyones happiness.

Well, she has been messaging me about SD's Halloween costume, getting my input and asking for help on ideas. That's fine.

Last night she messaged me and asked for a favor. I said sure. She asked if we could take her out to SO's Uncles farm some time to see SD's mini horse because she knows how much SD loves horses and wanted to see her interact with him. I said sure when are you free?
She said today at 3:30 when she got out of work, since it was an exchange day anyway she would meet us at our house when she came to pick up SD and we could ride together since the farm is right down the road.

I said sure, and I would tell SO when he got home from work.
And she said:

"SO doesn't have to go, it could just be us girls".....

So I agreed (still trying to keep the peace)and she showed up today and I drove her and SD out to the farm.

It was really nice. She was normal. We talked about her new medications and other chitchat lol.

It's just sad because I know she is just trying to get close to get some dirt but she can be really nice when she wants to be. It's frusterating. I also had therapy today and my therapist said do what I have to do today but try really hard not to get trapped into one on one time with her anymore because I will just end up hurt and thrown under the bus and my fragile mental state probably can't handle much more betrayal considering what I am dealing with with my mother. Ugh.

So just thought I would share. But at least I had the foresight to get some video and pictures while we were at the farm of the 2 of us getting along in case she tries anything again.