Minor Issue - Bedrooms
This is a minor issue in the scheme of my home life.
Essentially, my SD19, lives states away at college. She came home for winter break, during which she kept the same visitation schedule (with adjustments as she sees fit) as her younger brother, SS15. We have him EO Thursday - Sunday, plus Wednesday dinners. So we had her for about a week during the break, and she was a nightmare to be around, for everyone in the house.
This summer, SD19 has plans to travel abroad and spend the rest of the time in her college town. She will come back to our area for approximately 1 week at the beginning of the summer, and one week at the end. No idea where she plans on staying, but I was clear with DH that her behavior this winter necessitates an apology to me if she plans on stepping foot in the house again.
In our home, we have a master and three bedrooms on the upper lever, and a finished guest space on a lower level with its own bath. SS15 now has the lower level room to himself (a positive for many, many reasons). Our LOs have two of the bedrooms upstairs. SD19 now has that 3rd bedroom upstairs. In the next year, I would like rearrange the rooms so that the LOs who are with us full time have the larger 2 rooms, while SD19 has the smaller room, which can also function as a guest room.
My question is - is this a reasonable request? DH is a loose cannon when it comes to his daughter so his responses will be all over the map.
What did you all do when your skids left for college or to move out on their own after age 18?