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helen17's picture

Sat upstairs in my room as can't bare to sit and listen to pathetic attempts at SS15's control over his dad. Tonight we have had letter from school as he didn't show up for an exam. SO went to have 'a chat' (extent of his parenting) and SS blagged his way out of it as usual with total web of lies.... (which SO believes of course). SS then asked to go out with his mates - 'What time do you want me home dad??' in a silly baby voice. SO "9pm", not 'No you cannot go because you missed an exam' or 'No,you need to study first'. He came back at 9.20pm and nothing was said.........now he is down there 'talking daddy round' with his stupid promises of working and 'I've done this, I am going to do that'. Please go to your BM's, she doesn't care about yr education and I'm tired of trying to help you out. 5 yrs of helping you out with no backbone from SO. Will watch and listen as SS decides what he wants to do next (ie as little as possible). Sad Angry Face....S'ok I'm not looking for advice...I'm just venting!!

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ThatGirl's picture

Good for you! I thought about venting last night when I was sitting in my room to avoid SO and SS13, but I decided to change the linens and do some laundry instead. Dunno why I clean when I'm mad, but I guess that's better than smashing things Wink

helen17's picture

PS I hate the way he laughs at the tv, he sounds like he has something seriously wrong with him.
I do know its SO's fault and his lack of parenting (V frustrating) but at 16 SS knows EXACTLY what game he is playing and he doesn't like me cos I know it too.

helen17's picture

Thatgirl....I clean when I am mad too! I'm actually very productive and get loads done when I'm annoyed....but then usually find myself physically and mentally exhausted the next day.

helen17's picture

OMG its now 11pm and they have come upstairs together and SS16 is watching SO make his bed because he says he can't put on a sheet. Are this pair for real? What happened to that strong man I fell in love with? Where did he go? I'm off to bed as late here in the uk. Night all! H Smile