Second marriage ss 11 spoiled no consequence!
I need help!
new marriage, second for us both.
my kids 21/24 self sufficient no probs! I raised them with manners, expectations and respect.
my so, kids 11/14.
11 yr old...
pushes boundaries constantly, does whatever he wants. No consequence for actions. He gets more and more and more. He swears, has access 24/7 to any social media and has accounts. Has made in appropriate comments online. Guess what? Still has his phone!
despite was expressing suicidal ideation in Nov. came home from our honeymoon to horrible behavior! Behavior was directed at his moms boyfriend. Involved a bat and a lightbulb.
he has been diagnosed with depression and anxiety He is actually quite proud of that diagnosis
he continues to disrespect, including yesterday at school telling his counselor his teacher was a f!!!!!
and stated I'm leaving. He did! His mom took yet another day off work!
today, he got a new pet!
um told this by my so last night. Whenever he tells me things I become defensive. Due to no repercussions. No cell phone taken, no grounding.
then we argue.
i have or get no say!
hes not suicidal anymore but everyone plays that card with him. My so was constantly called and asked to run over and fix it! He did at first, is now better.
his response is a just wait and see.
neither one of his bio parents are doing anything to correct these issues.
What do I do?
we have been married 3 months and omg!!!
I'm like wth?
love love him.
so much more to say!