BM at it again
So DH contacted BM to try to talk to her more about taking the house out of his name. She’s ruined his credit. She won’t pay it on time and she let the second mortgage go into foreclosure. He’s been divorced for 6 years!!! Looks like I’m going to have to hire a lawyer. Somehow he hangs up with a list of things that we have to help her pay for in addition to everything else that we pay for. I just don’t get it. She gets into his head and convinces him that if he doesn’t pay for more he’s not doing right by his kids. Doesn’t matter that they spend money frivolously. They take European trips and spend tons on clothing, etc. BM has no budget then wants us to pick up more. She’s having a big graduation party for SD. She hasn’t talked to us about it at all but I do know that she’s renting a place, having it catered, etc. yesterday she tells him he should be helping her pay for the party that she’s planning and inviting her people. I tell DH we should do our own. We did my daughter’s on a budget and it was super nice. I baked my own cake, etc. skids BM thinks they are too good for stuff like that. I keep telling ash that makes spoiled, entitled kids. He says his aren’t that way. They literally have never been told no to anything. Oh yes, I told y’all how BM refuses to acknowledge me when I’m at an activity. I keep telling DH she has resentment. He didn’t believe me until she went off on a tangent on how my car is nicer than hers and our house is bigger than hers. DH told her that was MY money not his. Also she started crying and telling him how she keeps looking at pictures of their old family and how happy they used to be. Really??? 6 years lady!!! I so want to move away!!!