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"BM is nice in person....but plays these childish games via email"

happy mom's picture

Like I said BM was nice in person and had a lot to say. When I ask her questions via email she doesn't respond to them....can someone tell me why that is? Like for instance she said she grounded ss for no tv and I emailed her back to ask what he did to deserve that she didn't respond. Why can't she just respond, does she have these mood swings and only reply back when she wants to. I think that is just childish and stupid. What do you guys think? Or like when I ask her when are they going on a trip in the summer, she doesn't respond, like it's a hard question or something.

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Cruella's picture

The BM I deal with does the same. Never responds to my husbands questions yet uses email as a weapon against us.

StressedSM's picture

Its simply that the BM does not like confrontation. Even if you have no intent for that to happen. She will go days, weeks, months w/o responding. She doesn't want to "deal" with whatever it is. She likes to be in control and if we ever question or want to change, she'll just ignore us.

Exhausted SM's picture

I think she doesn't want to put anything on paper for fear it may be used against her one day. That is at least the case with the crazy BM over here.